| So I've spent the last week or so going over everyone else's posts (xfman your blog helped a lot, thank) and practicing everywhere I went. I'm getting ready to go back to chicago for school, so I figured I better have my A game, or at least a game.
Anyway, long story short I've been practicing the confidence routines because I'm fairly nervous going up to people but I can carry it once I get over the introduction hump. So today I went down to the beach and was just playing vball with some friends and they invited an HB over (9face/7.5body). So I think, what do I have to lose, my friends already got me over the intro. hump, plus we have an activity we're doing together already.
Well, we played vball for a while and I'm in the zone so I'm not really talking to anybody but when we stop for water, I go up and use a rainbow opener I thought up in the last couple of days. She goes for it, thinks its hilarious and I ask if she wants to go for a swim in the lake (Michigan). So we go out there and as we're talking in the water I throw out a DHV about travelling (true btw) and give her a light neg about how she was always aiming for me during vball. So she gets all flustered and starts talking about how she likes me and whatnot, so when we head back up I #close and think 'thats that.' PUA training works.
It works better than I expected. My friends and I roll from vball to go play bball. On the way, who calls but the HB asking if I was busy that night. Heck no I say, and drop off my friends at bball, shower, brush up and rush back to meet her at a coffee place. We sit around for a while and I know we're right around C2/C3/S1 so I talk alittle about myself to get over the trust hump and then suggest a walk around the boardwalk. We walk around a bit, and I raise the kino as I'm talking using her hands and whatnot as visual aides in our convo.
As we get halfway to the pier, she stops and puts my arm around her (first time a girl has ever raised the kino herself in that way) and kind of stops and looks at me. So I go in for the kiss and its reciprocated. Anywho, this is like the fastest I've made it to this stage on what's essentially a first date before, so as we're kissing I'm racking my brains for ways to have this end up at her place. So she pulls me in so our bodies are pressing against each other and when she realizes my excitement she gets LMR. She looks at me and goes, "I have a 45 min. drive back to my hotel so I don't want to start anything we can't finish."
Long story short I run out all my best LMR-killers but no dice. As it stands though, I'm really appreciative of the visible progress in my game in 1 week. PUA semisuccess story. _________________ Veni, vidi, vici
-Julius Caesar
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