Im a freshman at college.

Background
-High School days = AFC
-Slowly started mounting my way up the social ladder in high school
-After the first few weeks ive already established a notorious reputation as they guy who knows everybody/hosting all these things

-I party friday night and lead a whole posse of girls.
-After the first party everyone comments on how i was the life of the party (this was a junior/sophmore party too lol) we bounce
-On streets i run into a bunch of creeper guys, i amog them and continue to lead my group of 5 or so girls and a beta male
-other DHV's include running into my extremely hot co worker who hugs me. (shes a senior in a neighboring college)
-Frat guys giving me high fives since i talked to them when i rushed on the weekdays

Now tonight
-I organize a social gathering at a sit down restaurant
-Isolate a girl to take a walk with me (want to be my partner in crime always works)
-i pull routines, kino (way not enough), and shit and we were really into a deep funny conversation
-it loses momentum, i didn't take the kiss at the high point
-on our way back, i try to do the hug-hold-kiss spiel but it doesn't work for some reason and i just let her go
-she thanks me for the "really good night"

I know its not the end of the world, but this makes me feel like shit.

i see random kids on my floor making out with girls on day 3 of UNI and me, a dude who knows pickup has all these dhv's going for him can't come home with jack shit.


FUCK
FUCK
FUCK

whats the best way to escalate this much further. im not trying to be a playa/douche but im horny as fuck i haven't jacked off in 3 weeks

good start at school, nothing specific to say but read up on how to close, it seems like up to that point youre golden