This is an FR/LR from a few years ago when I was a stripper and a recent FR with the same girl after I got back in contact with her. It started off in 2005 when I was in the VIP section of a nightclub and I'd just finished a strip and me and my two friends I was with were hanging around chatting to girls.

Then across the room, I noticed a slim blonde HB8 in thigh-high boots and a little short black dress and she appeared to be with a guy that looked like a geek. He was definitely no AMOG, so I decided to use this to my advantage.

I went to the bar where they were standing and stood next to the HB8 as she ordered drinks from the bar while her BF was chatting to other friends.

I first asked if she'd seen me strip. She said she didn't because she arrived afterwards but had heard about it asking if I was the stripper. I confirmed it was me and she said, "Shame I missed it," which I took as an IOI, so I decided to step up my game as I was severely limited on time here due to her BF being right behind her. So, I went straight into C&F routine using an immediate BFD.

I said, "I think you need rescuing." She asked, "Why?" I said, "Because your boyfriend looks like a geek." She laughed at this, especially given my forwardness and cockiness while her BF was right behind her. I took this as another IOI.

She said, "He's ok," with a slight smirk in her face, so I could tell she wasn't convinced. So, I took this as invite to show her different. I asked for her mobile number and promised I'd contact her to come and rescue her from this relationship. I successfully number-closed.

A week later, I took her on a day 2. I didn't use any game because this was long before I knew about game, so most of my technique was very traditional AFC stuff, so no point going into any detail here. Cinema, theatre, drinks, chat. I fuck-closed her at my place on the living room carpet with her thigh-high boots still on! But the point of this FR is the initial encounter - I successfully sarged a HB8 while her BF was present using a combination of C&F and a BFD.

She was 17 years old at the time. She's now 21. And I recently got back in contact with her through Facebook and she is now going out with a 48-year-old man! It's like it was years ago all over again but she's now older, wiser and we're both in different lives to back then. So, I have been playing some Internet game on her and meeting up with her for lunch occasionally near to where I work. So far so good. Each time we've met, I've just used natural game to talk about things - mainly anecdotal stories of what we've been up to in the years we've been out of contact. I have several stories that always spark a lot of intrigue and provide a mixture of shock, amusement, entertainment, sympathy and endearment. I have my Las Vegas wedding to a psycho that I'd only known for 7 weeks, the pedestrian I killed in my car, the time I got seriously assaulted resulting in a metal plate in my face. Yes, these are all true stories in the last four years! And they're good for providing good unusual chit-chat that might otherwise be idle smalltalk.

However, the conversation should always be two-way. In the book, Juggler teaches to converse with a girl not by asking lots of questions to sound interested in her, this is too cliché. Conversation must be a series/exchange of statements. And by providing anecdotal stories then giving opportunity to the girl to provide stories back, the girl feels she must validate herself to you by trying to match how interesting you are with how interesting she is. Point to note: it is important that you don't reel off your stories one after the other and not allow her to get a word in edgewise. Provide plenty of opportunity for dialogue. Prompt her if necessary: "Has anything like that ever happened to you?" ... "What would you do in a situation like that?" ... etc.

In between exchanging anecdotal stories, my other aim was to destroy the BF with some BFD technique. The first one was obvious - she's 21, he's 48. I put her in a frame. "Imagine when you're 33, he'll be 60!" One of the things Mystery teaches is to never hit on a girl until after 8 or more minutes - you spend this initial time learning about the girl so you can use what she's told you to your advantage. I had learned from her stories that her BF was facing serious criminal charges of fraud that could land him in jail this year. So I told her she had to act now rather than wait to see what happens. She needs to prepare for the possibility that he might be gone and she would be left homeless and without support (she has no job and relies on her boyfriend for everything). She appreciated this and took everything I said seriously and sincerely. Other guys may have told her similar things, but the important thing to do is to break it down for her when using BFD to a complex level such as this. There's no point saying "He's 48 and going to jail?!? Get rid ASAP, that's no good for you!" You need to put her in a frame like I did with their ages in the future. You need to spell out the long-term result of the immediate and short-term shortcomings of their current relationship and how it all connects.

Once I had done this during our first lunch, she wanted to see me for lunch again and again and again. And we kissed every time and had lots of kino, but it hasn't gone further yet as it has been difficult to arrange a night meet-up with her due to her living with her BF. And the last time I met her for lunch, I was a little nervous because I had just started dating a girl from work and doing lunch near work with this girl was all of a sudden a risky affair. So I think she sensed that and we haven't done lunch since despite numerous attempts. This is what I would call a failing of my inner game. Girls notice it like a sixth sense. I seemed different to her because I was nervous about the girl I'd started seeing from work, and it showed in my confidence, my charisma, my general persona.

So, I have recently been using some Internet game to try and fire things up again, but with an aim to seeing her for an evening, not lunch. This is how the convo went (bear in mind, she's recovering from a serious ear operation, and I've [removed] some of the irrelevant stuff):
And then a few messages after that making arrangements. So, this is where it's at now - let's see if I can fully close the deal on Tuesday before her BF gets back!!

Be interested to hear feedback on the C&F and BFD I used, and if it would be useful to anyone currently dealing with a girl who has a BF. Also, any help with how I could approach Tuesday eve and get her to her place and fuck-close her before her BF gets back would be useful too!

The fact you're caring about IOI's, LMR, is not productive.. stop caring about that nonsense, as it means you're coming from a place of reactivity (and putting the girl on a pedestal). I like the positivity and expression in this report, and it seems you're on the right track, but just drop the reactivity and nonsense community terms

Hope that helps mate, and look forward to reading your other reports fo sho

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