So it has been a week since I have been furiously reading and absorbing all information I can get my hands on in order to become a PUA and I figure I can post my first two FR's.
First FR:
I have been seeing a HB7.5 for a few weeks now (Before I got turned onto becoming a PUA) and effed it up bad. I went into the situation with the wrong mindset (relationship) especially with a HB that is NOT relationship material in the least bit.
So I ran my cocky/funny routine on her (which is actually just my natural personality) and she ate it up, took the bait and Comeback was in. We were hanging out regularly for a few days but it didnt go passed making-out. She went away on vacation for 10 days, barely got in contact with me (her phone was broken) and when she did would speak about this guy she met lance. My jealousy was sparked and I started acting like a hardcore AFC thus making her the prize and me the contestant.
When she got back she would not even kiss me and started playing all these games stating things like she "didnt want to be tied down" which is exactly opposite of what she was saying prior to her vacay.
She seemed to have lost interest, when we hung out she would give Clutch more attention than she would give me and it would piss me off
Luckily for me I started reading Style's The Game and surfing the wonderful world of PUA forums last week. So I applied Mystery's cat-string theory to the extreme. I called her up one night and told her I no longer want to see her and that I did not have feelings for her anymore. She was genuinely upset and taken aback. She changed the subject and tried speaking to me like nothing happened, so I went with it. The next day we happened to be invited to the same movie together by the same person but earlier when she asked me what I was doing I told her I was "probably staying at home". When she found out I was going to the same place as her and had not invited her myself she was extremely upset and angry so I told her that my feelings on the matter were stated the previous night. She didnt meet up with all of us for the movie later on.
I have not seen her in 4 days and have been dry when speaking to her. The results? She has been the sweetest most lovey-dovey thing I have ever seen in my life. Calling me, texting me constantly and telling me she misses me and she wants me to see her new hair (seeking validation). She invited me to watch a movie at her house tonight since nobody is home. Unfortunately I know she is on her period so an F-close will be hard but I'm positive I can get a BJ-close ( <--Did I just create a new close word?)
FR 2:
Clutch and I went to a club/bar last friday for a birthday party. It was a perfect opportunity to field test our new-found knowledge of PU.
We opened several sets beautifully after we got shot down by the first girl whom possesed one of the most hardcore bitch-shields ever witnessed by humanity.
We had much succes with the "Do I look gay?" opener, especially since I was Peacocking, wearing a lavender colored sleeveless hoody and bright red sunglasses.
Our greatest success and failure all at once was when I opened a set of an HB8 and an HB10.
Comeback: Hey, If I wasnt gay I would totally hit on you.
HB10: lol Really? too bad your gay.
(clutch came in to distract the obstacle HB8)
Clutch tried the ESP test on HB8 and it failed but he played it off beautifully by turning to me and exclaiming "see I told you its bullsh*t and doesnt work!"
Then he gave them the bestfriend test. Afterwards I did Style's cube visualization with HB10 and she was very impressed.
We fluff talked a litte I intitiated some kino then we got up and went back to the VIP section with our friends.
HB8 gave little to no response to Clutch. I caught some IOIs from HB10 but when I approached her later on it went nowhere. I even befriended all the males around her and got into a long winded conversation about my muay thai training (which impressed her a bit).
Here is what went well:
- We opened several sets very well.
- We had plenty of social confirmation thanks to our friends
- We played the games perfectly.
Here is what went wrong:
- We did not anticipate the loud music being a major obstacle, the girls could not comprehend a lot of what was going on.
- We introduced ourselves before they asked for our names.
- We did not neg very much
- We did not define any time constraints
- We spent too much time playing games and little time fluff talking and connecting. It made it come across like a gimmick we were using to sell ourselves.
All in all it was a great learning experience. We did'nt close anything but I am confident we will next time for sure.
One more thing, HB10 knew Style's lies game perfectly, she even tried to get me to buy her a drink...that worried us a bit but I am just brushing it off.
Id love some feedback and/or tips.
Thanks,
Comeback
CHAT