FR#16: Successful night stats wise, but not my best game



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 7:56 am 
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So I went out gaming on Friday night, but ive only finally gotten around to writing an FR now just because Ive been so busy...Im gonna try and keep this one short just because its late right now, but I just wanted to write an FR because I said at the start of the summer I would for every night I went out to game.

On Friday night I decide to go downtown with a couple of my buddies. On our way there I ran into a girl I knew who I was friends with in high school. Back in the day she was about an B4 in the looks department, but to my surprise she looked great. Definately upgraded herself to an HB7 at the very least. She told me she and her friends were going to Club X, so we put that in the back of our minds as the place to hit up later in the night. Now Im not a club guy at all, I personally believe that "Dance Club Game" is pure attraction, as opposed to "Bar Game" which is actual work to get the broad. I prefer bar game because of the challenge, and because its never cheap success.

Before we headed to the club we went to the liquor store, and grabbed some booze for a pre-game drink, and then headed to Club X. As soon as we enter the club I tried to get my energy up abit, and put on a nice little non-fake smile. I tried to look like I was just out to have a good time with my boys. We head straight to the dance floor and I see the HB7 I knew from high school. Instead of immeaditely going to dance with her, I just acknowledge her and move to another part of the D-floor. I end up dancing with this cute little HB7 Asian Girl and within 20 minutes Im making out with her. K-close. However, I have to say though, that it was a very cheap victory since I barely talked to her while we were dancing. It was just her pure attraction to me. I guess I can say I acted with confidence, but is that worth a K-close???

Anyways, after I suck face with the little asian broad I moved on to the HB7 I went to highschool with. And instead of dancing with her, I start chatting with her while were basically just vibing on the dance floor. We conversed for about 20 mins and she was laughing at all my jokes, and she was genuinely interested (I know for a fact she used to like me back in the day when she wasnt hot). I tried to DHV myself the best I could, but the only IOIs I was getting was the laughs, and the odd subconscious hair touch. I Kino'ed but I dont think I recieved any in turn.

Anyways, after 20 mins I say "Do you know what Amanda, we shouldnt go 3 years without hanging out a again, give me your # and lets hang out sometime." She responds with "But I have a boyfriend". (I was pretty sure she did before hand, but I still went for the close haha). So I respond with a smile and say, "Ya so? Were just friends Amanda. Jeez why are you so forward. Were just buds." As convincing as I thought I was, I know shes a smart girl so I dont think she bought it, but she still gave me her number anyways haha. I probably wont call because I think that would ruin my chances in the future. So Im just going to wait till she breaks up with her boyfriend.

After that I move to another side of the D-floor, and try my "hip-bump" opener on an HB7. The "hip bump" opener is when you basically just hip check the girl and then smile at her. You then gage her reaction and if she smiles back you just start dancing with her, and if you get negative body language you just move on. Its my go too opener on the D-floor since its almost impossible to open verbally since its so loud. As I was saying though, I opened an HB7, and I forget exactly what I was saying but I DHVed and all the proper steps etc, and she ended up asking for my number and I told her with a smile, "Sorry, I dont give my number out to random girls, you can give me your number though" haha. She ate that line up. I dont know where I found that one, but its golden if a girl asks you for your number.

So I end the night with a K-close, and 2 #-closes. I guess the #'s werent exactly cheap, but I really felt the K-close was. But hey Ill take it. I shouldnt be bitching because a couple months ago I wouldve killed for one. However, I just feel like Im making alot of progress so I expect more and better out of myself in terms of performance in the field.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 19, 2009 9:34 pm 
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Haven't seen a FR from you in a while. You have definitely progressed but I can tell you are not feeling it. Like you said "cheap victories..."

Fogell, you know me and I've watched you on the forum for a while. So please don't take offense to me loading up my guns on some stuff I see here because believe it or not I WANT TO HELP!!!

First, you mentioned doing the pre-game drinking. No amount of drinking will help your game. Plus that will always make victories feel "cheap" because its not completely you picking them up. Anyways, you already know this so I'm going to get off this topic quickly to get on another.

Seriously, WHY do these little victories feel cheap to you. I know this feeling very very well and it took me a while to get the answer. I am willing to bet despite many success with getting kisses or numbers you feel cheap within a few hours or days afterwards, am I right?

Then you get online you post some field reports or talk to your PUA buddies about it, get some praise. Think to yourself, why am I bitching I'm doing better than I was and you go out again. Just to feel the same way in a few days...

How am I doing so far???

If what I am saying is really hitting home with you. Then I'll tell you know the community can not provide you what you are seeking. It will only lead your astray and further away from what you are truly wanting.

You are always welcome to message me if you would rather discuss privately.

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