Okay I went out, I didn't wussy out! well that was one positive.
But, at my work a few girls were ignoring me or giving me little put downs and that put me in a bit of a bad mood. Not a good way to start the night.
But on to the report....
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I tried to get a friend to go to a the downtown area here, cause I knew a girl whos was going to celebrate her birthday there with a few friends. She likes me, but I don't know her well enough for her to invite me, but I figured if I happen to run into her things might turn out well. He didn't want to go out, and I didn't want to be seen there alone...oh well (i get the impress he just calls so he won't have to drink alone, not that he really enjoys my company)
I drove out to a new bar I haven't been to. I sat at the one opening at the bar. I talked to the guy next to me. Had a drink (dam it have to stop that). I looked around, and it was mostly groups of hot girls sitting in 3-5.
I really wanted to approach, and just sit down and talk. But I didn't think I could take the punishment if they rejected me. Honestly, I think I was more worried about running out of things to talk about.
Okay I'm locking up, so I thought it was best to change avenues.......
So I went back to where I went on day 2. It was crowded this time. I walked around a lot. I stopped to watch the mechanical bull.
Two cute Latino girls were standing next to me. So I opened:
(I turned my head to talk to them, but my body was still facing away)
Me: "you guys going to ride?"
Girls: "oh no were too sober for that"
(I turned to face the away)
Girls: "what about you" (as she gives me a light slap my shoulder)
Me: "oh no i'm too sober for that, too" Her:"why" Me:" I'm driving"
Her: "oh well thats good"
(a few seconds pass)
Me: "ya you guys aren't dress right for it anyways"
Her: "uh?"
Me: "the last girl had a dress on" (dumb, she had jeans on, why did I say that?)
(I'm still facing away from them watching the bull)
So there was a group of guys next to them. one of them starts a conversation with her. This guy casually walks next to them placing himself physically between me and her. Bastard, just cut me off.
I should have partly turned my body to face them, but I was grasping at straws for conversations as usual.
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Well I'm glad I went out, I think I'm finally over nervousness of going to bars and clubs alone. Its the actual approaching girls part that I need to get over.
I think I'm going to focus on day game this weekend (I would do more, but I"m always busy during the weekdays).
I think it would be really helpful if I had someone to go with at the same skill level with the same goals (like I mentioned all my friends have girlfriends or don't want to pickup). Or just a coach to help me bridge the gap (i feel so clueless out there).
CHAT