I've been going out to some dance clubs with my friend Thursday and Friday. He knows nothing about the game, but he's a pretty good looking kid and is courageous. So whenever we go out clubbing he usually asks a girl to dance and then I start dancing with her friend. Before I was unwilling to even approach a girl. Yesterday I asked a couple of girls and finally one said yes.

Towards the end of the night, I started to realize that approaching is only half the battle in dance club game. After we start dancing for a while I can tell that she's losing interest quickly.

SO my question is how can I improve my dancing besides just practicing with girls? I feel that I will be going in the other direction if I keep dancing with these girls and having them realize that my dancing isn't too good. (By the end of the night, I just had no will to ask any girls anymore)

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Just my 2 cents.

Hey!

Well, I have never done it but s'pose that there are salsa classes and other dance classes, and the babes outnumber the guys 2 to 1 so go for it!
by the end of the night- everybody is tired. Don't feel pressured to be asking girls to dance if you feel tired. Enjoy yourself first- have a good time, the babes are going to pick up on this and want to check you out cos you are cool.
Who give a shit?

hope this helps.

yeah it helped a bit. thing about looking like i'm just having fun. i usually go wiht my guy friend and his intentions are just to pick up girls... which is mine too of course. but i like to meet other kids in the process and expand my network

i guess i don't know how to have fun with 2 guys at a dance club.

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Just my 2 cents.

are you escalating at that point? my guess is prob not. Escalate it get close to each other and push her off gently so that sexual tension is there. I like to start dancing with a girl and then push her off gently so that this she is the one re-engaging the dance. Then its just a matter of escalating to the kiss close.