Alright basically to sum it up theres this girl she has a bf who she has been dating for a little while but i think he is a prick and could care less what he thinks i dont like the way he treats her. So i have been out clubbin with this girl 3 times in the past week and a half and i can tell she likes my presence i make her laugh alot and when we go on the dance floor she dances on me like she wants to fuck. The other night she was chillin at her crib and i was out partying and she invited me over to her crib to chill so i came over i was with my friend though plus i was drunk and she was sober so i knew not to expect much we just blazed a blunt and chilled for a little then i left, one thing i did ask her to do though before i left was to squeeze my ass just to see how she would react to it and she did it right away no questions asked. She always just text me throughout the day drunk or sober she will just text me seeing what im doing or asking me a question and we just continue texting each other through out the day majority of my text in my phone right now are from her. We flirt for sure and say some sexual things in person or in the text we joke alot. So my question is how should i handle this situation she is a cool ass girl for sure im very attracted to her i enjoy being around her and im afraid if i make a move i might get recjected since she does have a man she has been dating for a while so if i make i move and get rejected i would feel weird around her from then on and dont know if i would hit her up anymore, im pretty sure if she was single i would be able to get it but my question is should i just man up and make a move on her soon and how should i initiate it or should i be patient and hope her relationship ends soon so i can come off the rebound???

whytry -

You gotta give it a try!

The longer you wait the farther you go into the LJBF zone. If she has a boyfriend and she's telling you about him, then she's probably just looking for a hook-up.

What I don't understand is why did you bring your guy friend with you when she called you to meet up with her at her place? It seems that showing up to her place alone would be a natural way to sleep with her.

Keep in mind, she probably wants to get laid just as much as you do and was probably disappointed to find out her night went up in smoke (so to speak) instead of getting steamy with you in the sack. You should have ditched your friend.

Still, it sounds like her buying temperature is relatively high so you should make your move now.

well the only reason i went to her crib with my friend was because i was to drunk to drive and he was my ride that night, but thanks for the advice bro, if i make a move on her i dont know exactly how to do it since spitting game to a girl with a man is alot different then spitting it to a single lady so is there any help there on how i should make the move? and any other advice is highley apperciated thanks.