Number Closing:
Say something like (with a smile of course): “You know I don’t
usually walk up to random girls on the street but in you case I made
an exception. So give me your number and I’ll give you a call the
next time I ________”
The Blank is there to be filled by something you were talking about
in the conversation. EG: if you were talking about bird catching, you
say “blah blah blah, I’ll give you a call the next time I catch a bird!”
The point of this is to play down the number, and also make it seem
like you won’t be calling any time soon, etc.
You can also add: “Blah blah blah, so give me your number and I
promise I’ll only call you 9 times a day!”
Funny, smart, calling out what she’s already thinking.
Alternatively, you can say: “You seem like an interesting person,
what’s the best way to keep in touch with you?” The compliment is
supposed to break down any last defences, and charm her into
giving her your number.
Another sneaky way to get the number is to hand the girl a notebook
and a pen and say “You know I don’t usually walk up to random girls
on the street but in you case I made an exception. So give me your
email and I’ll email you the next time I ________”
As she’s writing her email down, you can say “Oh and write your
number down too!”
If she’s already giving you her email, she might as well give you her
number. Its like you’re building up her compliance, i.e. the more she
complies now, the more she will be likely to comply in the future.
If for some reason she doesn’t have an email (rare!), you can but on
her for that saying: “haha you don’t have email? Wow, do you even
have electricity at your place? That’s alright, just give me your
number then, and I’ll CALL you the next time I ______”
So you have the number now, say your goodbyes, don’t hang around
too much longer.. at all!
Ideally, touch her as you say goodbye, kiss on cheek, hug, etc all
these are good kino to be practising!

Instant Dates:
These are great in order to increase her comfort with you. The more
venue changes you do with her, the more it’ll feel like she’s known
you for longer.
So an instant date would have a similar structure as the number
close. Provided she has no other commitments, she should be happy
to accompany you to some coffee perhaps.
You need to make the question for an instant date seem casual,
normal, and also you need to let her know that its somewhere close,
not a café on the other side of town.
You would say something like: “You know I don’t usually approach
random girls on the street but in your case I made an exception. I
was actually just on my way to get some coffee/hot
chocolate/condoms (ok don’t say that lol), come with, so that we
may continue our epic conversation about _________. The place is like
right there *Point*”
It’s not the perfect way, but this is the structure you would need to
have. And more often than not it will work.
After you’ve taken her to the café or wherever, focus on more
attraction building through push/pull, teasing, etc. and also fire out
questions like “Are you adventurous” because if she agrees, she’s
likely to do something adventurous.. like kiss you.
Also, you can escalate the kino, with more frequent touching, slow
stroking (it can’t seem weird though! Do it as if its normal!) and once
you’ve escalated enough, and the IOIs are still there, stop talking
and look into her eyes for approx. 3 seconds, during which you can
tri-gaze her thus escalating the sexual tension. If she holds your
gaze for those 3 seconds, you can move in and kiss her. By the way,
tri-gaze = looking from her left eye, to her right eye, to her mouth,
and back to her left eye, and the process continues.
Alternatively, you can ask her straight out (Mystery’s method)
“Would you like to kiss me?”
Alternatively (again!) you can ask her “On a scale of 1 to 10, how
good of a kisser are you?” let her answer, and then say “Lets find
out” and Kiss Close!


Phone Game:
Ok so you have obtained her number, after a fun interaction, you’ve
done things right so far. But now you’re sitting at home that night
with a number and no clue what to do next.
Well, the key here is to not call or text for about 24 hours – or at
least not for the rest of that day.
So if I picked up a girl today, and got her number, I’d wait until
tomorrow to give her a call.
This first call is essential, and I will take you through it now.
You dial the numbers, you hear a couple of rings, and then a “Hello?”
You need to use some material from you interaction with her to start
out with so that you can get her back into that state she was in
yesterday (fun and attracted).
Ideally, the excuse you used to get the number (eg: blah blah blah,
I’ll give you a call the next time I catch a bird) should be used in the
first call. So if you two spoke of bird catching, your first words would
be like: “Heyyyyyyy, guess what?” “What?” “I caught a bird!” and
this takes her back to the state that she was in when she gave you
her number.
From there the rest is easy. BUT, you must tell her early on in the
interaction that you were calling when you had afew spare moments
(remember you’re a busy man) This first phone call should not last
longer than 3-4 mins max.!
So you might be like “I caught a bird.. blah blah blah, What are you
up to?” “not much you?” “Oh I’m just waiting for my bus to arrive so
I thought I’d give you a call and see how you’re doing”
Or you can say “Oh I’m just getting ready to go out with some
mates, but I thought I’d give you a call to see how you’re doing.”
So to recap, you need to:
- Use material from your conversation to get her back in state
- Let her know that you’re not sitting around, and you havn’t
planned this phone call – you just had some spare moments
- Let her know that you’ve ONLY got a few moments as you
prepare to go out, etc.
- Be the first to end the conversation (ideally at a peak in the
conversation, perhaps like “Oops, there’s my bus, gotta go –
I’ll talk to ya later”
- Set the scene up for the next call, the DATE call! (Eg: say
sometime during the interaction that “Yeah we gotta catch up
for coffee this week” or something to that effect)
That is solid phone game!

At the minute I'm struggling for a Day 2. The mistakes I think are:

- I don't time bridge. I say "I'll call you" instead of setting up a meeting then saying it
- I eject at what I think is a high point, when I should probably build a bit more comfort

So gonna try to address those in future and see how it goes.