Hi guys,

just gotta vent this here. Saturdaynight was great, I had two number closes. One right under the eyes of a girls boyfriend. I felt a little guilty about it, but PUA-wise, I felt like I was reaching a new higher level. My friends even said I got a little arrogant about it.

Well I payed deerly for that today!

Today (sunday) I celebrated my birthday with family: nothing special. A HB 8 I had a day 2 agreement with, sent me a text with congratulations. Around 8PM I texted back and she replied by inviting me over to a bar were she was sitting with her friends. I should come and celebrate my birthday with them.

"Yes" I thought, "lets F close this girl!"

I get over there, only to end the night losing her to the mofo bartender. WTF? So she knew I was interested, invites me over to her friends (who were all total old drunks!). I really needed to take a piss, so instead of getting the chance to AMOG the dude, he got to isolate her. I left, drove home and saw them kissing in an alleyway. Nice!!!

Anyhow, anyone knows how to play from here? Get angry with her for doing this, or just be a good sport and go for the planned day two and acted as if I do not give a freak?

thank you, oh great forum for letting me vent this... I feel better already LOL

Oh man that sucks bad. But why did you leave just because of the bartender? Don't get angry. I would cut all contact with her, but that's just my opinion.

What Goes around comes around. Take it with a grain of salt. Dont mess with someone elses girl if you dont want others to mess with you.

What Goes around comes around. Take it with a grain of salt. Dont mess with someone elses girl if you dont want others to mess with you.
You got a long way to go my friend.

Why would you celebrate your B'day with a girl you just met a few days/weeks back !! You thought she would give your her pussy in gift !!


be careful next time !!
That must be fucking tough to watch.
Act cool like nothing matters. Dude she is not a virgin. Before you met her she must have kissed a lot of bartenders. So what the hell are you freaking about. Just go on day two and keep on gaming her. Your not planning on marrying her are you ?? So how does it matter who else she kisses.

thanx for the support guys. I'm going to keep on gaming her, you bet ya! And you're right: I should be a good sport about this. I came out to play, but lost. This can happen, better luck next time.

We'll I finally had my "normal one-on-one" d2 after all. We went out to diner and had a great time. She asked me if I wanted to come to her place wich turned out to be one huge shit test. So too bad no closing, but we had a great time and there is plenty of rapport to keep it going.

I also learnt shitloads about why it was so difficult to finally arrange this. It turns out that the bartender kept beating me two the chase with just a few hours on almost three occasions! So thats why she stopt communicating on these (in the same town but different bar situation) occassions but stayed enthousiastic on a long term basis. And thats why my endurance has now payed off.

So thanks to Marc for some sound advice.

greetz Buccaneer

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

What's up bro,

I would guess that Her inviting you to celebrate your bday is a clear sign that she was digging you. All she wanted from you at that point was for you to ravish her with your charm. That is to say, go more direct on her and kino escalate her. Unfortunately, the bartender beat you to the punch...

However, I don't think your battle is over. You should still build up enough comfort and then demonstrate that you are interested in her by going kino and being more direct and dominant.

Even if you feel like it's a lost cause, at least there's more girls you could work your magic on.

Hope this helps bro

Cheers,
Nineteen.

Meh, nothing really special that happened here. You were just unlucky, hope it turns out for you!:)

thanx for the post guys...

But some of you obviously haven't read on down... LOL

greetz

bucc

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

It's due to me not liking to give advice regarding a person. People differs, and therefor you have no guarantee that it'll work. Anyhow, no point getting upset over this. Just keep on normal, but try to step up the escalation a bit.

- Exerio