Hey lads,

I'm only a beginner, that means you should maul the flip out of me. Now,

It was 12:30 at a club in my hometown, i was with one of my mates and we both bumped into a girl he knew, they hugged and then he introduced me so i hugged while flashing my smile lol. Anyway he went to get a drink and he and her went to dance, after a few minutes she was grinding up against me and we decided to go out for a smoke, at which point we hooked up without a cigareete in sight(luckly! i hate tobacco!). It was loud so the conversation was pretty crappy but she asked for my number which I was happy to give her and we have texted a bit today.
Sorry about my poor memory but luckily the sms side of things is stored on my phone, here it is:

HB: Hey its XXXXX from last night hows it going? This is my number haha!

ME: The fun XXXXX from last night?!

HB: The one and only!

ME:Hmm, your ok your dancing is the 2nd most attractive thing about you.

HB: Aw thanks whats doing this weekend?

ME:Its my bday on friday but i have no plans yet. Probably tea with mates on friday. Some of them want me to hit the town

HB: You definately go in town. Its your birthday ! + i'll be there

Tell me what you think so far.

You're doing just fine if she's planning on meeting up with you.

But onto a critique:

That's funny because it implies that you met another girl with the same name. From her response she thought it was funny too.

Here you're again kidding around with her and leading the frame. Very nice.

I dunno about this one. You should be more excited about your birthday. Punk-rock!!! You're a rock star that night.

And you want her to make your birthday the most awesome birthday ever, right?. Does she have any ideas on how you might have the best birthday ever?

Do you feel comfortable amping the sexual tension in texts? You want her jumping out of birthday cake, wearing a little sexy black dress. You want to tear off the dress. Now you're picturing her naked...mmmmmmm.

A little less risky: what would she get you for your birthday: leather, lace or licorice?

Seems like it's on no matter what you do - so maybe you don't want to follow my advise - you should probably do what you feel is right.

Thanks Eskwire I knew I should have texted something like that I just didn't know what to say, will keep that in mind for the future!

We had a good evening last night much kissing and so forth and we went to bed. But! no sex, there was a ton of last minute resistance she was happy to spoon but didn't want to do anything more than kiss and touch. Bit of a let down but I'm not sure what happened at the end there, there was plenty of sexual tension, gave her a back massage and then we kissed for a while and she was touching me up but nothing happened. I kept trying to ramp it up with kissing and touching but to no avail. The feeling I got was she just didn't know me well enough and was too tired but I suppose it was still a good evening.

Comments?

Gards,

Grats on the run, bro.

Just curious how you were dealing with the LMR. Did you walk away, break the SPAM and act like you had something else to do and wait for her to bring you back? Or did you just kinda keep at it with the sexual attempts to progress? I'm curious, as a newb myself.

But, if you're in that place with her now, shouldn't be long yet.
Again, grats and good times.

When she moved my hand away from somewhere or showed signs of discomfort I just moved back a stage and went back to kissing and touching the area I was before. I was trying to build the sexual energy to get things moving but everytime I could tell she was getting into it she would start to pull away again.

I'm not sure if I screwed up or she just didn't want to have sex, I'm pretty sure her body wanted her to though. I think maybe I fell down because I didn't DHV as hard as I usually do verbally instead I relied on physical and social DHV's. I bet expert PUA's are going to come in and say I should have been able to do it solely with physical and social DHV stuff but yes thats what I did. I couldn't really break contact and then reengage (i sound like my corporal lol) it was 3 in the morning and I was in a messy room with what I felt to be a rapidly closing window as she had said she was tired earlier.