I met up with a few friends for a party tonight and met around 7 of their friends. We eat dinner and go to a bar. (At dinner, there was a hot girl who I sat next to and pretty much only talked to her when I could tease her or ask her a simple question. She kept hitting me on my arm when I made fun of her, but I think she was just kinda like that. I tried to keep messing with her throughout the course of the night but she didn't seem that interested in my lack of game... Some things happened where I know she was noticing me and noticing how I wasn't trying to work for her attention, but it wasn't going anywhere so I "moved on" to other options I had opened throughout the night. Read on:)

At the bar, my group knows a few more people, some dudes who's behavior shows them to be turds, and some girls who are cute. I just kinda act aloof and get some drinks. BS with some people I know and pretty much act like I'm having a better time than I am. I bounce between some groups, placing myself where I feel I have a good position to open or close people off with by BL (body lang) and am pretty much just testing waters at this point. Seeing what works and what doesn't with people that I'm comfortable enough with. I think practicing opening or closing the set you showed up with is decent practice for ones you don't know.

I ask my friend the names of these girls and he tells me. He then gets the hint and introduces us. I open them with an on-the-spot stupid question for one of the girls that made everyone laugh. I just kinda greet them shortly then turn and walk to a different group.

We move on to a different club. There, a few of my dude friends and the 2 girls are "dancing".... you know... hips, legs, arms, asses shaking: "dancing". I dance with both of them, in short bursts at first. Then I start dancing with some girls around us that I don't know. This was just to build some jealousy (It's like women's kryptonite (run ronnie run)) and show that I could approach other girls I didn't know. Which surprised me, but I just acted like it was normal and natural. And the girls danced and smiled at me and didn't box me out or turn away. Perception is reality.

So both the girls (my targets: both of them. I'm not good enough to pick one and execute. I was just trying to work them both and look for IOIs from one or the other) are cute, 6-7s, and I'm dancing back and forth. And sometimes when they don't expect it, like before a song ends, I'll let go of them and just walk away and dance alone or move out. Then I'll come back when they don't expect it and just grab them, pull them in, and dance again.

Well at one point, one of the girls interlocks her hand with mine while I'm holding her, her back on my chest. Dancing with me can't count as an IOI, since we were all kinda dancing together, but eye contact and smiling while dancing was IOI#1. IOI#2 was dancing back up to me after I'd walked away. IOI#3 was the hand-hold. I turned her around and started dancing close face to face, making eye contact and smiling. I move in, my lips towards hers, but she turns a bit. I act like nothing happened and keep dancing with her. She's smiling and I ask her why and she says that if we keep dancing face to face she is going to make out with me. I ask her if she wants to and she says, "I don't know". (In that situation, that means Yes). I move in again and this time she responds. We kiss softly 3 times and then I say let's move off the dance floor. She follows to a corner and we make out.

Small talk afterwards.

When she leaves I get her number.

**Now. I want to call her, but only to escalate. I'm not trying to be her boyfriend. But until now, I've only talked to girls to try to date them, so I need some help in this area. How do I get her to hang out again and get it to the bedroom without seeming like I want to date her?? Do I tell her with words or with actions that I just want to be FWBs? Both of which I'm at a loss for 'how'. And when do I call??
Thanks for the read and the response.

_Phi

What? That's a classic IOI, school-girl school boy behaviour.

Anyway, back to your question. So you wanna escalate this ASAP? Read the:

Gunwitch method.

It's pretty much out there and will contravene almost everything you have learned so far.

You're playing a pretty high risk strategy now.

Understand that almost every girl will WANT to pursue a relationship. So it could either go the distance (F-close) or FUCK up instantly.

Sinn also has some good material for getting girls into the bedroom the most efficiently.

So to recap, google Gunwitch and Sinn's work. Peace. Of course if you knew about Gunwitch before, you wouldn't have number closed her, you would have F-closed her first then number closed her. Ha.

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tweeby, Thanks for the response.

Lol, she gave me a time-constraint.

She left with a friend that lives out of state and is leaving tomorrow. Also, I'm new and I don't think I would have pushed for the F-close tonight regardless of the friend situaion, quite honestly. Still trying to get comfortable in this situation.

But, it has to be possible to play the FWBs game, right??!! I mean, I know certain PUAs have multiple "GFs" and it works for them! Certainly I can manage 1. Certainly maybe.