hey guys, not usually into field reports but this one was just excellent. met HB9 a few weeks ago. blond, athletic, dancer. really hot, and my type. shes a childhood friend of one of my buddies, theyre like brother and sister. he calls me last night and theyre having a party to celebrate her birthday. heading in i was psyched up pretty solid. was definitely into HB9 but was going to enjoy myself and of course be the life of the party.

when i get there, its just my buddy, the girl and another acquaintance of mine. i start chattin up dude i dont know basically telling him a bunch of DHV stuff to build value. she's laughing at my jokes even when im not directing them at her. later in the night more girls show up, a couple really cute ones. gamed one pretty good but was not about to take my eyes off the prize. did some kino escalating, spinning the girls, playing thumb war. every person that walks in i start talking to being friendly and DHVing. within a couple hours, i was the party. all the girls trying to get my attention trying to say things to get a reaction out of me. i keep my conversations tight and act like nothing is going on. they are eating it up.

my buddy wants to go get cigs from the gas station. the party is dying down at this point so i go. HB9 suddenly is really excited to go to the gas station. my buddy comes to his senses and realizes that he wants to hit on one of the other girls at the party, so i grab HB9 and we start walking down. im still doing attraction at this point doing push pull. theres a row of bushes in front of a house, i lightly push her into it. shes showing a lot of token resistance, like she knew something was going to happen. i was just treating it like i was walking to the gas station, no biggie. we go to cross the street, i go in front of her and offer her my hand. she grabs it, we cross the street, i throw her hand push pull push pull. shes worried she didnt bring her id so i tell her to just walk around with me, ill take care of it. this definitely built up my value, i was not phazed by some shit she was worried about. after we leave, i go right into comfort, asking what shes going to school for etc. grab her hand again to cross the street, squeeze, she squeezes back. throw hand off, continue walking. then once she talked for a bit longer and i had felt she had built enough value for me, i just go straight into kissing her.

she starts saying how i shouldnt tell anyone. im like "like im going to brag about a kiss". we get back, party is dying, i isolate and keep talking with her. then it happened. she starts talking about the game, i tell her ive read it but dont say much else. later she starts trying to call me on stuff, nothing specific but she was speaking in generalities. that i was being kinda a dick, being mean, etc. basically, what people say when they dont fully understand what exactly has occurred. she starts calling me on negs. at this point, im not even negging her. i take this opportunity to accuse her of gaming me. i tell her shes had her eyes on me and she must have learned something from the game because im an amateur etc. i think i really did get her to believe that she was gaming me.

finally, everyone leaves. i of course am too drunk to drive home and so i tell her we should share the futon. enjoyment ensues, although i didnt f close. i think shes pretty cool, if i do sleep with her its not going to be on some shitty old futon. this morning she kisses me awake, were cuddling and all that good stuff, and then she gets a call. shes on the phone for like an hour. its clearly her boyfriend. who she hasnt told me about yet. she gets off the phone and brings it up to me that she has trouble with commitment, i nod and let it go. turns out, her bfs younger sister was at the party, and hooked up with my other buddy. this morning, i go to kiss HB9 on my way out, and she hugs me and tells me she feels bad. i say i understand and im glad i got to meet her and left.

in the past, i feel shitty after something like this. i guess im getting away from one-itis. im driving home and thinking about it, and i could not possibly be happier. i gamed my target successfully, especially with all the social land mines i was dodging all night, and the girl has read the game, and has a boyfriend. god damn i feel unstoppable.

her bf is in japan for the military, and apparently theyre not like fully committed. i got her number, any ideas for further escalation? some good boyfriend destroyers to run? any ideas would be appreciated. much love, keep pushing boundaries

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