Hi Guys,

I am 28 but still a virgin. I think I am quite picky. May be that's the reason. I have been out with two of my friends. They are about 10 years older to me. Following what David D says "Pick brain of successful people", I hang out with them. So, I was in a club with these two guys. We always get free entry because club owner knows my friends. That is a huge social proof, I guess . I will post one of my field report today.

FR++: There were lot of girls. I approached a 2 set. They are like HB4.5 and 5. So, I asked HB4.5 if I can borrow her HB 5 friend for a minute with a smile. She agreed. So, I took her with me and stood near the dance floor. Now, my AFC braind kicked in and bore the hell out of her. I had nothing to talk. I was asking her if she likes coming to this place and blah, blah, blah...So she said after some time that she had to go. It was a disaster. I made a few guy friends too for social proof. After a few minutes, I approached another set of HB 4, 5, 4.5. There was this fat girl, I approached who is HB 4. I thought, I will ask her to introduce me to her other friends. So she was asking me if I am interested in HB5. But, out of nowhere, I blurted, that I am interested in her. Damn it. She asked me if I smoke. I said no. But, I came out with her out of the club. She was smoking and giving me shit tests but IOIs too. Though she was quite intelligent, but I was not at all interested. She even told me that I am too old for her. I thought, what the hell, I am not taking her home anyway. After smoke, she asked me if I want to have a mouth freshner. I said, I am fine. I knew, she wanted to kiss. I thought wtf, so we kissed. She told me that she wants to go home.. It became hillarious. her mouth freshner came into my mouth. I am like yuck...So I politely told her that lets go inside the club and join our friends. Meanwhile, my friends were gaming her friends and got blown away pretty bad. I didn't know about that. Just as I was about to go in, she met her friends and I saw two guys whom I met before. One of the guy was talking with the HB 5. I introduced him to HB4 and said I need to go inside to talk with my friends and brb. Once me and my friend came out, as HB4 was nowhere to be seen, I thought of number closing HB5. I asked her for her number which she gave me readily but told me not to share with my friends. I had HB4 numbers already. So got two numbers but as I was not into them. They were useless to me. I am really into blonde HBs. But, I think, I made a rookie mistake of saying that I am interested in HB4. I would have certainly got laid that night. HB4 texted me around 12.30am if I am still around. But, I didnt reply. Next day evening, she texted me again that her friend told me how I got her number which is actually fake. I called that number and HB5 picked up so, she really gave her actual number to me.

My questions -
1. I still have approach anxiety. Once I am in a pub or club, I start talking with guys so that I can use them later to show social proof to girls if required. Do you guys think, this is ok?

2. Also, sometimes, I ask names of the girls rightway. During the night, I high5s with them every now and then just to show others that I am not needy. For that I have to ask names more than once sometimes. Do you think, this affects my game?

3. I am not sure, if I am on the correct path of FC a hot blonde? I live with roomates, so I can't take a girl home. Is there any other option? Should I ask her if she wants to me to her home or something?

Any advice?

Thanks.

a k-close and 2 #-closes is ok imo, even if one of the two girls was fat.

What I think you did wrong. At the beginning, you said you approached a 2set. Did you ask immediately HB4,5 if you could borrow HB5? Never do stuff like that. Makes you look desperate. Always use an opener, especially in clubs where girls are just waiting to get hit on. One of my favourite openers is Cajun's moustache opener, which usually gets them laughing straight away. Also, immediately start negging your target, maybe you did that but I didn't see it in your post. Say shit like "your nose wiggles when you laugh / talk" and then point at it to get her friend(s) involved, bla bla usual stuff you know.

If you don't have anything to talk about, make up some stories before you go out. Or simply DHV. I like the lying game here, works great in clubs. I usually do this when in front of the entire group and aks if they're adventurous, bla bla... "i'm not sure, you guys don't look too adventurous to me, especially you (point at your target who want your attention by now if you negged properly) and then do the lying game on her, have her agree to buy a drink if she loses. Then isolate her, and DHV some more.

your questions:

1) not sure, I don't do that
2) I never do that. Why the fuck would I care about her name. I always wait until she asks my name, which is an IOI so simplifies things for you.
3)maybe your car?

Kazell,

Thanks for your reply. I have one more question. Suppose I am in a set say 2 set. Did everything right and its time for the num close. Should I ask the other girl for her number too or just the target:) [Rookie question I guess]. Suppose set comprises of a guy. What to do then? In annhilation video, style I think says something about it like take the guys number too or stuff like that. What do you suggest?

Thanks in advance!!

This is just sick. You kiss girls you don't like. I know you want to kill your approach anxiety but I don't agree you try to do this at the expense of girls you don't like. You can start convo's with them and dance with them; practice the material with them; but kissing with hem ? My advice to kill your AA is to go to the mall and talk to girls you like. You don't have to try to seduce them. Just ask them directions. No normal girl is gonna kill you for asking directions. Once you don't feel nervous anymore asking directions you can try the typical opinion openers. Just ask a opinion and leave. I don't think you are gonna lose AA by just opening ugly girls anyway. There is a big difference in opening someone you don't like and opening someone you do like.