Hi guys

heres a detailled run down on my meeting with a girl with tattoos.

Before the meeting I worked out in my head what I wanted from it. A kiss close and 2nd meeting.

We arranged to meet at 6pm yesterday and about 45 minutes before I get a text asking what time the meeting was. i held out a bit and gave her the time and went to the place. About 5 mins before I get a text saying she'll be late.

I go inside the bar/cafe we had arranged to meet outside and I ordered a drink and sat down and made sure I looked busy and not really bothered waiting for her. I was nervous and tried to use the time to relax. About 10 mins after the meeting time I get another text saying she'll be there shortly. I arrange the seating so that she will have to sit next to me on a 2 seater bench/sofa thing. I have a feeling she will not show.

A few minutes later she is there. A bit bigger and sterner in real life than her pics. I'd rate her a 6.

I greet her with a hug and kiss on both cheeks then ask her to order a drink. She has a bit of a moan about the low seating. And I agree (I shouldn't have done that) but I did quip that it's better at night as they are more like beds.

We talk a little bit and she has a nice voice, very relaxed but on guard. I'm conscious of a time limit I put on the meeting and make her aware of that and she looked a bit guilty. I keep looking at her tattoos. I knew she had 1 but apparently had 6 or 7. I see one on her right arm and one on her back at that time. I ask about the one on the arm which looked just like a tribal squiggle thing but on closer look it's words. She tells me it's her sons names. I'm not fazed as I knew she had 2 boys. I get in some good kino tracing the letters on her arm. We get into talking and then realise I need to go. I ask about seeing her again and suggest later that evening as we both had different things to do for a couple of hours. She rejects and I suggest sometime the following week. there's a bit of to-ing and fro-ing and we agree on Monday evening. we leave the bar and I give her a quick hug and I am fairly happy that I may have a day 2 (more a day 1 and half)

I go and do my thing for 2 hours and during that I get a text asking if I am still up for meeting later that evening. Before I can text reply she is calling me and we quickly arrange to meet up again. My thing overran and I get to the 2nd meeting 20 minutes late and she is not there and I call her as I think she waited and left. I wait for a reply and decide to give it a few minutes and leave if I haven't heard from her. just then she appears with her sister we're quickly introduced and the sister clears off.

We head towards a nearby Starbucks as I know they will have good seating and we order some drinks and sit outside as it is so hot. We talk a bit more and I make sure I keep touching her knee and lower back. The talk isn't great but keeps moving. We finish up and she suggest walking to the lakeside where's a party.

We start walking there and she asks about my travel arrangements and I give a dopey response and she started to reconsider going to this party. She said she'd feel embarrassed as she cut off a friend to meet me the 2nd time and would see her there and that she was getting tired. I tell her that we shouldn't continue if she is feeling tired and she shouldn't have cancelled her meeting with her friend for me. i talked about honouring commitments. I did start to talk about staying too long with people during meetings and realised I'd really said a bad thing there. I tried to explain and realised i was fucking it up. So I kept quiet. I did recover by saying that you can have too much of a good thing (something along those lines anyway) She seemed ok with that. I was conscious at the time that the party thing was not my plan and being with her too long can be a problem.

We walked to her busstop and I asked about the tattoos again. I am shown 3, one on her right arm (with her sons names in a tribal pattern) a large one on her upper back (she described it as a good dragon) and a chinese symbol of life (on the back of her neck) We talk about tattoos and the such and she mentioned that she liked the pain (wtf!) and she was a bit of a freak. I deliberately step back from her teasing that I'm in disgust then come back and give her little side hug.
I ask her about the other tattoos but she is coy. I did get that she has one on her lower back. I kind of tease her that she will not tell me where the others are.

We walk a bit more and her necklace breaks and she has to sort that out. I get to see the Life tat on her neck and I get some good kino in tracing it and I do a bit for the Dragon one on her back.

At the busstop we wait and she asks if I'd have tattoos done, what and where. I said I'd have a script on my shoulder blades a bit like the character in Memento.She was cool with that and she talks about the Life tattoo and that she had it done in memory of her sister who died of cancer. She was close to crying and i could see the tears welling up. So I gave her her a really good comfort hug and relate that I understand as my father died of it. We talk about using death to appreciate life, seizing the moment and being happy. She seemed much better then. The bus is nearly here and we talk about meeting again and revert to the Monday evening option.

I give her a hug goodbye and she practically steers me into a kiss on the lips I'm a bit taken aback and then I kiss her on the lips again, and we wave goodbye.

Assuming a 2nd meeting I am fairly certain I could get to fuck her or at least get her worked up with heavy petting for a 3rd meeting.

I have to plan meeting 2 really well as I will have to escalate the kino and we need comfortable isolation. I need to get her to talk about deep positive stuff so may try running the cube on her,and i need to sexualise the dialogue.

I did a lot of good stuff especially with the kino but the conversation was a bit low key. I definitely want get to see her other tattoos