So I am new to this and I am not totally familiar with all of the lingo. I just want to throw a field report out there that happened before I knew the formal "game" existed, and get some answers to questions that follow. Here goes...

I went out with a wing, sort of a wing since he has a g/f, to this 80's night I go to a lot. We played some pool and got quite a buzz going before we decided to head outside for a smoke. There was a girl sitting at the end of the patio by herself and we decided, without discussing, to go sit with the said girl.

My wing asked if we could sit with her and she complied. I made a comment, maybe construed as a neg, about her lips being very red, obviously red lipstick, as was her purse and cell phone. She laughed and seemed sort of annoyed as her three friends walked up.

(I need to reiterate here that my technique is purely natural. I didn't know anything about the game.)

I didn't really choose a target because I normally just wait to see what comes to me, and run with it. She came to me in the form of a 7, but just my type. I didn't mean to, but I gave her attention initially, and by the virtue of pure luck, we ended up making out and groping each other all over the bar. Let me explain.

When they girls walked up to us they started casually chatting. The 7 was so tiny I honestly hardly even noticed her and started chatting with her friends about smoking cigs. The 7 interjected into the conversation that she was a smoker for 6 years, but had quit a few months ago. I simply looked up at her and said "wow, for someone who smoked for 6 years you have really straight and white teeth."

The rest is history my friends.

After only very small amount of chatting she sat next to me and we hooked up like wild animals for almost 3 hours. At the end of the night I got her phone number, she was very persistent in giving it to me, and I called her the next day around 4 to ask her out to dinner. She said she would be occupied with friends, but suggested the following night. Bottom line is that we can't meet up again until Sunday, which we agreed on doing. Here is the question...

Should I text her or try and call her prior to making arrangements for the date? How soon to the date should I call to make arrangements?

Just let it flow man. I gotta give ya props... Thats a sick story.

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Good work, showing natural game their buddy. I was in a similar situation a good few years ago before I'd even read The Game or heard about PUA techniques.

I was at a mates party, I didn't know anyone there apart from him, so I was going to have to make an effort to talk to people. Anyway, I walked in to the kitchen and there were two girls there. One would be a HB6 and the other HB9.

They were both stood in the corner, looked like they didn't know anyone either and they were stood by the table with the drinks (i was in there to get a drink) So i walked over and said hello to HB6 and asked what she was drinking etc. In hindsight I realise that usually blokes would have perhaps started talking to HB9 first and ignored HB6. So, HB6 seemed really pleased I was paying her the attention, and HB9 must have been wondering why I wasn't hitting on her.

After about 5 minutes of talking to HB6, HB9 finally says something. Now the party was fancy dress but HB9 hadn't bothered to dress up. So as soon as she spoke for the first time i asked her why she hadn't bothered to make an effort for the fancy dress party. (i guess a neg etc)

From them on she was self validating herself. At this point I'd sorted my drink out so told HB6 and HB9 i was leaving to check my mate was OK.

After that HB9 was following me around all night, and it was game on from there

WHen i finally read "The Game" about 6 months later it made me realise the whole psychology behind what had happened.

Anyway, this shit works, good luck to everyone