I went downtown this afternoon to pick up some corn flower at a foreign food shop (I live in Japan, so American food is foreign food here). As I walk looking at the stuff on the shelf this HB8 came into view wearing some nice form fitting jeans to show off her curves and tight ass. Our eyes met and held for a bit. I continued on with my shopping, bought the cornflower and then walked out the stoor. In front of me I saw HB8 walking.

This was around 1:30pm, when my sex drive tends to be at its peak. I was seriously considering just walking up besides her and slapping her on the ass (it looked that good). But I decided against that and went in for a more natural approach.

me: So, are you interested in foreign foods?

her: Yeah. I sometimes go to Italian restaurants around here, but everyone says that foreign food here in Japan is not the real deal. They say it's Japanized to meet Japanese people's palette. (This is true, actually)

me: Yeah, that's the impression I have. You're best bet is to go overseas and taste the real deal. Have you ever been abroad?

her: no....

The conversation continued pretty casually like this. I noticed myself getting very very nervous as I usually don't open like this. I was not doing routine. She then mentioned that she was trying expand her cooking repretoire for her husband. I then told her I could teach her how to cook some foreign dishes. I did some light kino and put my hand on her shoulder at one point while I was talking to her and told he she was cute. I purposely complemented her to let her know that our exchange was not just going to be about me teaching her how to cook. I had to sexualize it somehow. We then exchanged numbers and I sent her a quick text. About 15 minutes after we separated she texted me back....

I love married pussy so much. Not saying I can f-close this one, but you know I'm gonna try!

A opener made on scene, and you got her interest early.

How did you approach it? Were you in the same aisle?

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Update:


I hit her up with a text later that evening just to shoot the shit since she had texted me earlier in the day. In one text she said, "I don't know why I gave you my phone number. We were just talking and it just seemed to naturally happen"

I did a little character building in one text to show her that I'm a good guy: "I played with some kids today at work. One little boy started crying, but I was able to cheer him up again. I'm cooking El Salvadorian food now...."

She texts back: "Sorry, I don't know you. I'm confused as to why I gave you my number. I wasn't planning on this happening. I'm not going to text you anymore. Sorry. Bye"

Crash and Burn!!!

Whatever Boitch. Looks like her conscience caught up with her. Too bad, I was going to tap that married ass hard bent over my kitchen counter.

This is a problem with my game I think. I get numbers so easily, but a lot of dead leads.

Clozer, I'm in the same boat in respects to being able to get numbers fairly easly, even from really hot babes. Most of the time though nothing really comes out of it. Do U have any ideas as to why that maybe or any one alse on this forum ??????????????? I'm getting to the point to where I will get a number but not even call because I feel nothing will come out of it, unless i kissed-closed or had Good Kino.

Hey Clozer, I wouldn't call that a crash and burn at all, I'd frame it more like someone's given you a free ticket in a lottery that might pay off some time.

Thinking about why she backed off, having hooked up with married women before, the big thing is always security (theirs). They want to make sure you're not going to sms/call them when hubby is in the room, so I always say "look I really like you but I don't want to get you into trouble - is there a good time for me to sms or call you?".

Once you get into that kind of discussion they usually have a good idea of what they want. I figure that's because a married woman must do a lot of fantasizing before she makes a move. My current married squeeze likes to communicate mostly through Yahoo IM and set up sms or call times through that. The previous one liked me to call her mobile around midday during the week but not leave a message if she didn't answer. Whatever makes her feel safe and gets you laid hey?

I'm guessing your HB8 won't sms you again but she knows where and when you might be in that shop so may end up there again with that "I'm not here to see him but if it happens..." kind of double-think that women do so well. Be good if you were there to open her in a relaxed way when she does.

Summing it up - you did good and should feel stoked about the deal. Next time remember to ask when it's right to contact her.

Dude, Exactly!!!

But I do some good in it as well. For example, if you number close 10 girls, you're bound to get a least 1 hot lead. Whereas if you number close only 1 girl, all your eggs are in that basket. I like to spread out the love to pull the odds in my favor.

I think what we have to do is build more comfort and leave the girl wanting to know more about us. So in otherwords you have to show her that you are a really interesting person, yet leave her wanting to know more about you. Lately, after I number close I say something like, "You know, I'm really busy at work and I probably won't have time to contact you, but please hit me up sometime if the spirit moves you/if you wanna know more (smile)". This way I don't come off as desparate and I leave the ball in her court. I don't know if this line is going to work or not as I only just started using it. We'll see.

I've seen this covered before on the forums. Even so, I feel I should interject. Why are you so intent on doing married women? It doesn't sound like you're just doing it because they're are attractive but you draw a lot of attention to the fact they're married.

I'm not trying to get all uppity about this but can't you let the married ones go? There are so many others after all.

At least if you decide to get with them anyways, please don't do it as an ego thing like: "Hey guys! I can ruin relationships."

Sounds like you did good though, ladies will get remorse whether they're married or not. Hit up some more at the mall.

Hey Cerin,

With the upmost respect, I'm sorry I made you feel uncomfortable, and I think this forum may not be the right forum for you. I can't say for sure, but I suspect you are a woman. In that case, you're probably going to read a lot of stuff on this forum that you don't like. It may be difficult for you to understand the world from a man's perspective. You probably don't even realize how difficult it is for some of us (men) to talk to women. You would probably be more appreciated on this forum if you were to give us men advice on how to pick up women, make women feel comfortable, etc.

That being said, you pose an interesting question which I would like to answer:

Firstly, I like married women because of the added challenge. Secondly, I like married woman becaues sometimes it's actually easier than getting a single woman in bed. Thirdly, I like married women because they don't expect a a deep relationship. Most are okay with casual sex once in a while. It's very easy and laid back; there is less romancing involved and more of the good stuff--sex! Lastly, there is just something very carnal and primitave about the pumping the pussy of another mans woman. Yeah, I like dipping my hand in another mans cookie jar.

I used to get lots of phone numbers that lead nowhere, as a rule of thumb don't get a number until you have got a kiss.

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