Never been to one of these parties before. Was out on the south south side of Chicago.

After thirty minutes of driving around trying to find the party, we finally found it. Me and my friend Philly Prince walked into the party, and noticed that it was an outside party. Was cold as hell, but we broke off and began opening up mixed sets. It was more for socialization then picking up girls specifically.

I went to where the fire was, and noticed that this guy was doing a horrible job on the fire. The guy was AMOG, so it was easy to disarm especially since he sucked at the fire. I went out, grabbed some dry wood and resurrected the fire. I immediately disabled the AMOG saying he was wanna be eagle scout, and he should grab everybody beer around the fire cause of his failure. He immediately did.

After disabling him, a small amount of girls began to come to the fire like mosquitoes to the light. They were all saying how cold it was, and just complaining. I opened up with the who do you think lies more. This really got them debating among eachother. I immediately re focused their attention on me, and each got individual opinions. In a matter of five minutes, I had established myself as he AMOG in the fire circle. Following up the opener, I did the ESP thing with the number through one and ten. They all chose 7, so I explained to them how I wasn't psychic. Number closed one of them.

I forgot a time constraint and I may have leaned in to much! Please critique the hell out of this.

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Giovanni

Hey giovanni great post

I also did some field report post a few minutes ago, and as I was writting mine, i discovered that the GOOD thing about GAme is that you already know the answers are, it just takes a while to hit us.

As you said, maybe you leaned in too much, displaying huge amounts of interest, or maybe you could have used the FTC or move the set to where your friend was, or maybe invite your friend over to show a bit more social proof and make things more interesting.

It seems that it was at least a 3set, maybe more, even though you managed to be the AlPHA maybe you could have used a wing to help you isolate, but, since the thing was to be next to the fire to avoid freezing to death I guess it was hard to isolate a target away from the fire, both yours and her comfort levels would have dropped low.

By what you wrote, seems that you had a good energy level, yoy made the opener work great, created attraction, and disabled any other AMOG around.

But yes, id only say to remember the points you already know, not leaning in too much and having always a FTC, If you dont go for the FTC, remember to merge sets that way you dont have to "LEAVE". you have your friends come over, or just move the set.

Id say in that particular case, to bring your friends over to the fire, since the set is not going anywhere away from the fire, you've got that to your advantage.
Another point.. if the set was just girls set, remember to establish who your target is. I have found myself struggling because i didnt pick a target within a set i open, then its a bit harder for me to find a gravitational point for the conversation. If you know your target you know the gravitational point is gonna be negging her and keep her friends entertained and give all those DHV you already know


Well thats what i think, for now, theres much more to be extracted from your experience i guess

peace !

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