This HB Blonde friend of mine has an HB Persian roommate that I really want. We've hung out with a few times. I took her out for coffee a couple days ago (The HB Persian).

I introduced a friend of mine to them. He has really good game. He actually got the Persian HB's number before I did. Last night, we were all partying and he was working mad game on her. He probably ended up fucking her.

I didn't know what to say or do. Should I have communicated that she was my target? Part of me felt that it was fair game for him. Though I introduced him to her, he did actually get her number first. It sort of bummed me out, but at the same time, I was thinking that I really should learn from what he was doing.

Anyone have any thoughts, ideas or similar experiences? Do you guys have rules with your friends on gaming each other's target or is it all fair game for you?

best advice is to forget about it and game others. with friends i dont really care a whole lot about girls because when i meet girls with my friends, i think of it as a random party and whatever happens happens and is all fair. if i game her from the start and later on a friend tries something, then i tell him to back off tho.

That's a good point. I feel like it's sort of one-itusy to give a shit too much...

I had a similar experience a couple days ago.

We were at a party ( not too many HBS tough )

Theres this girl, I started gaming her, she was being responsive and giving some IOIs.. " whats your name?, You look familiar to me, I like your clothes..." etc etc.

Then comes another "friend" who has nice game, so he knew that it was kinda "my target" but since she was the only girl in that room, he started gaming her too.

To be honest, he outgamed me, he caught her attention for a while, and given the circumstances i didnt want to come off AFC or try-hard so i just let em alone, and started listening to this guys game, I was watching too in a humble way and aproval of his game i gave him thumbs up. I didnt care about he outgaming me, in fact i was smiling and looking at him like " Go dude, great stuff !!" kind of expression..

Now happens that like 15 minutes later i see the girl, alone, the guy was just having a chat with some other friends, and since i still wanted to sarge her, i aproached her and talked for a bit, then i Isolated her to a more quiet place and gamed her GOOD.. i mean, she was on, giving me IOIs and stuff.

I was playing game.
Then later i hear that the other guy was complaining to a friend about me, saying that i had no game, that i was a looser, that I had no respect for friends and had a shitty attitude... the classic "how do you roll with this guy"... dont ever wanna hang out with him".....

He was pissed that I had the girl, He wasnt humble about the fact that I had now out gamed him.

many things happened.. but thing is ... I now dont care that he tries to put my friends against me, or that he felt like it was disrespectful of me to sarge his target ( he first did it to me and i gave a shit )

You shouldnt care if some one outgames you. You shouldnt care about it at all.

Better not to come off as an angry or jealous guy.

So dont worry about that target steal and game other girls. I will too.

c ya !

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