Greetings,
This is my first post here in a while, a couple weeks, and alot has happened in that time. I got a new part-time job, and I kiss-closed my first asian

I had met her in my geology class at my university (a number-close which I have chronicled here earlier) and we had been flirting via-facebook for a little while. She called me and asked me to go to a party with her and her sister. I decided to go, but was unsure as to how she felt about me.

Throughout the night, I was talking with the host, and his two friends, making them laugh, not doing it purposefully, just being myself. Then I decided to chat with my target for a while. I did a push-pull, where we were talking, and she said something kiddingly, I pretended to be hurt and walked away to talk with other people.

We started texting back and forth, then I asked her (via-text) if she would want to help me make a drink. She said yes, and then followed me into the kitchen, where I proceeded to pin her against the wall and made out with her. I broke off first and walked back to the party without a word.

Any feedback would be great,
Until next time, good luck

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H|pnot|k

I'm still learning, but it looks like you are on the right track. It's good to be yourself and not give her all the attention and be social. Pinning her against the wall was very dominant and good job ending it first. Maybe could have isolated more and moved towards an f-close, but the sister being there might have been a problem.

Well done. You played it cool, calm and collected. Definitely all around good game. I would warn, just in case it happens, not to play it off and mess with her too much. This was a great approach, but keep that rapport up. She put herself out on the line for you, she bent to your will and fell for you, now you have the one up so don't put her on the spot overtly or make her self conscious about the situation. Next time I say escalate and take it to new levels of seduction. She'll respect you for not doing it right away. I say you're golden stud!

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Michael

I definitely agree. That was a good time for push, but now it's time to pull. Reward her for doing what you wanted in the first place. Make her feel good about it. Make her feel like it was the right choice. She'll be more apt to do it again and take things farther in the future.

Thankyou so much guys for your feedback. I tried to set up another meeting, but it fell through, so Im hoping to see her again tonight. We'll be downtown going to bars and clubs, so Ill try for kiss close again. So then should I ask her to hang out casually?

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H|pnot|k

I don't have a full understanding of the situation, but it seems like a bad idea to ask her to hang out if you've already made an attempt to meet up and she didn't make it happen. Now the ball is in her court and she needs to be proactive. Play it cool, because you've got better pursuits in your life if she is going to be lazy when it comes to trying to see you.

You'll try for the kiss close? You've already done it once. She's been closed. Tease her a bit, don't go for a make out right away. Make her squirm a bit and wonder if she's going to get to feel your lips on hers again. Should you send her the signals? Definitely. Hold off on sticking your tongue down her throat early in the night though.

We, as men, are turned on like light switches. It's simple. Show us a naked girl and we're ready to do the damn thing. For women, you have to slowly escalate, much like bringing water to a boil. Gradually turn up the heat as the night progresses.

For this girl, wait it out. Send signals of interest, not too strong, and build tension by making her wonder if you two will kiss again. When it peaks, go in for make out and keep escalating. There's no reason you can't take it further. Unless she says no! Rape charges do not equate to a very bright future.

what i mean by plans falling through is we had plans to go blading by the river..and it rained, torential downpours..and then i had to work..so its notlike she blew it off or anything..

and i know what you mean about teasing..ill enhance that a little bit..its hard not to go for it when you know its there though lol..ive got some willpower so im sure that ill be able to wait it out for a while during the night

thanks for your feedback

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H|pnot|k