so two number closes, two kiss closes, and 6 drinks bought for me by girls... i thought id start this topic with a sense of dramtic-irony so you could see how it had all unfolded.

right, the scene starts, monday 6th april 2009, me and my friend who actually got me into the book, the game and the whole pua community went to lunch, we were repping a bar crawl event that night so thought we would pop into the first venue, started speaking to the manager and just chatting away building contacts for social proof for the night,

so our waitress came over, a HB8, tanned, olive skin, the sort you see in the hair commercials on tv, when the water is running down their body, flicking their hair back, and your sitting their in suspense with your jaw open lol we started chatting and that and we didnt have and knifes and forks, and she threw a shit test our way in the form of "well, u dont look like you need clean ones" with a cheeky smile on her face...

so when she came back, i used the classic opinion opener of whats better, cat or dog, etc etc she said dog and i said she was soo wrong etc etc

you could tell she was feeling it after that, as she was floating, making EC... alot! and i had read that EC is key to showing an Alpha exterior so didnt look away till she did, with a lil smile on my face

anyways, she came over just before our food was ready, and i asked her if she was one girls that liked to have fun, cant remember how i put it, and did she want to play a game... styles 5 questions game, subsequently she lost, and we had made a bet for a drink, so she went and got me one, and we chatted for a bit about nothing...

when we was leaving, we saw her, i pointed 2 my cheek, and she kissed it, and then looked at me saying shes not allowed to do that at work and said she would see us that night

so, the night came, me and my buddy get to the event early, see our waitress from early in the day, and point to my cheek again, shes more than willing to comply. than this rep i have just met sits with our group, i think she had a thing for my friend but he didnt seem that interested, so thought it was a good chance to see my routines before the night ahead. before hand i was telling my friend about AMOG'in and high 5'in and pulling away and that, and i was sitting down talking to this rep, and went to my mate to give him a high 5... he thought i was gaming him and just shuned me and made me look like a beta hardcore!! was not amused but we hada chat about it after and realised it was just a confusion.

anyways, i see my waitress just before we were heading out to the next venue, i go over and make small talk, and then add in... i'v got to go now, but is there anyway we can carry on this conversation... than she comes out with i have a bf, half hearted to say the least so i just drop, "so, im not trying 2 chat u up... i think ur mistaken" lol and with that she agrees with a smile on her face, but with a handful of dirty glass's, she asks me to wait there and she'l only be a minute... but i had to go then and there, but may have to drop up there some time in the week in the off chance shes working... if not they do a mean steak baguatte so the journey wont be in vein lol

so, opening sets left, right and centre, me, myself and i. using opinion openers, and leading to styles 5 questions game, that is where my 6 drinks came from, 4 girls didnt buy me a drink... so i accused them of being untruthful and said i had work to do in a cheeky voice and smile on my face, and said il catch up with them later.

anyways, i was field testing this, but i dont know, if you can see where im coming from were on the same page, i have negative thoughts about this, but the postives outweigh the negatives by far, such as with AMOG's, high fiving a group of girls, and pulling away from your target, this in many cases leads to them laughing and usually, as in last nights case, hitting you, creating easy kino escaltion, anyways, moved into an 80's bar, where this HB10 was there with her friends, and my jaw just drops, i dont think about it, i start high fiving and pull away from her... she does not look amused in the slightest, so i smile and ask if she takes everything so seriously, then my manager pulls me away to do something, and then 10-15 minutes later, after a rave with my friends and some girls on teh dancefloor, i see this HB10 again, she asks for something cant remember what, but was cocky/funny, then asked her if she was fun... ? if she liked games...? etc etc getting her in2 that "yes" mentality, then grab her by the hand over to a wall, where i rest my back, so it appears as if she is now chatting me up... *mystery* and conduct the style 5 questions, works a treat and then grab her hand and lead her to the bar.... she goes why dont you get it, but said some stuff about girls get served faster.... up untill that point it was going swimmingly, and then i went in2 AFC mode and was like... bugger what do i say now, and start askin... so where are u from... and then her mates come, and i lean over to one of the girls, and say, i think hes trying to chat u up... it was their gay friend so they laughed lol anyways got the drink, and then sort of swaned of... thats right, done the hardwork and then left

in hindsight i know exactly what i should have done, opened up the new set of her friends with an opinion opener, built comfort and then asked if i could steal the target away for a few minutes whilst my target was still getting my drink... then used the mystery... i bet you think you could get any guy in here... routine, whilst tri-gazing... it was actually so easy, and after all i could think of was this HB10 telling my mate how i just got a drink of her... soo AFC because i soo could of at least number closed

next bar, and the HB10 is back, she stops me as im walking threw the dancefloor... and asks me to buy her a drink... i came out with a decent line like if u were better at the game u would of got one... but then i just went in2 AFC mood again and bottled it because she was so good looking and walked off... 2nd chance blown... and im taking it she came up and asked me for a drink the 2nd time... walking away from her friends to me, as a major IOI which i didnt even think of untill after

and then after the HB10 incident the confidence was riding high and we made it in the club, and all the girls that bought me drinks were raising my soical proof, coming up 2 me, kissing me, as well as all the guys stopping and talkin 2 me, and it was easy to number close 2 girls, and kiss close 2 others

first night sarging, it can improved

Awsome FR...

Congrats on your first night out... sounds like you had a lot of fun...

my only thought for now that could come off and insulting and also insinuate that you "would have" bought her a drink...
how bout instead "I dont buy girls drinks, but you can buy me one =)"
or "I never buy the first round why dont you buy and if your still interesting ill get the second"

JMT,
Lucky

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150 people are killed every year by Falling Coconuts.... 10 by Shark Attack.

I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

ah no dude, she bought me a drink in this one bar, and then she came strolling up to me in another bar and went "so, you buying me a drink then" and thats when i said that line... i can see where your coming from by thinking it would have come of as insulting if i had done that straight after she lost the game, but i just grabbed her hand, took her to the bar etc.

but thanks for the congrats dude, it was one of them nights where your just feeling it, and thanks to this site, and books, i was ready to bring my game to the table... even if some points were pretty weak,

Hello,
Nice post! You definately have game, and you were obviously very successful. I too use the 5-questions game alot, and it is pure magic, basically anything you want can be won lol..a number, drink, kiss (if shes really into it)

Its too bad that you lost the HB10..next time try to apply the "im the prize" mentality. she obviously thought you were worthwhile, what with leaving her friends and coming to find you.

Good luck

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cheers mate, im only starting out and it helps to get peoples points of views and everything, i mean knowledge is power, so the more knowledgeable you are about your self, i spose the more power you feel you have over yourself, and that will reflect towards the opposite sex through confidence and a certain aura about yourself, so really appriciate all the comments guys, constructive critism and the compliments,

the forum has really helped with a new dimension of my game, and has seen vast improvments just from talking to random people, it has become more of a game, looking out for signs and IOI's that can see me through to the next section, and see that shit tests and other things girls do are hardwired into them, and that doesnt make them bitchs, it just means you have a job to do to bring their bitch shield down to get to know the real women underdeath, open them up and make them validate themselves for you.

so thanks alot guys, im also interested in NLP, although i havnt done any research into it yet, anybody got any good places to start ?

thanks alot guys, i mean my game would be nowhere near as good if it wasnt for this website, and all the comments back really do help, i mean "knowledge is power" and if that is true, the constructive critisim and compliments your giving me about my game can only increase my knowledge about myself, giving me more power over myself, which can be seen through the opposite girls in the sense of confidence, and the way i hold myself, so i consider this a huge gratitude for everyone commenting on my posts, so thanks guys

iv also learnt alot from this forum and books, it has made me see clearly patterns in girls, their bitch shields and shit tests doesnt mean they are 'bitchs' its just an in-built pattern in which they deal with every other AFC, and being able to understand this and read the IOI's and shit tests has helped my game ten-fold, just because a girl has their bitch shield up does in no-way mean that she is actually a bitch, it just means it your job to lower it, build rappot and get her to validate herself too you!

also, im interested in NLP, and was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on where to start ? iv only heard about it, and think it could be a major bit of kit in bein a PUA

woops, it said the 1st one didnt post... so took the time and effort to write it all out again i may as well leave it up... my bad guys