Well, I off on my first "date" since getting into the game. It's great to know there's a forum full of guys cheering me on. Whether FC, CB, or something in between I'll have a FR for you to critique tomorrow. I'm walking in to her with the attitude that I'm the most exciting thing to step into her life in ages. Update soon boys.

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God bless all you PUAs! Just got back from my date. I didn't FC, but got a decent KC. Too much to cover, so I'll stick to the basics.

1. Tried to have alpha body language and speech the whole night.

2. Used all information she gave me to lead into a DHV story in the beginning.

3. Pretended to palm read and then transitioned into the cube.

4. By this point we had rapport going so I tried to escalate kino.

5. Created time distortion by "spontaneously" taking her on an adventure to a little cafe down the way.

6. Playfully negged her throughout the night.

7. Ended date on my terms. She would have talked all night which scared me because I felt like it could easily turn into friend zone shit.

8. Danced with her on street which she liked to build kino. At this point I knew things were going well and I could get a KC. This was my favorate part because I had no AA at all and felt like I was on top of my game.

9. Asked her to come up for tea. She had LMR because it was obvious what would happen to us both if she came up.

10. I hugged her goodbye and then pointed to my left cheek. She kissed it so I pointed to my right and she kissed it. So I pointed to my lips and just iniatiated a good kiss.

I wish I had done this before inviting her up. I could have escalted sexual tension and arousal and then when she said no to coming up froze her out I'd something to bait her into coming with me. Not sure. Would appreciate any help. I also feel like the date went on way too long (3 hours long) due to me being new to this whole thing. Lot of fluff talk. At the very least I worked every item she said into something useful. Any advice in speeding things along? Also, does anyone have a link to a comprensive list of IOIs? Thanks.

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Oh... One more thing. She did offer me a rain check on the tea which I took to mean a rain check on fucking. Can anyone point me to some threads about when to call her again and what to do to get the FC on the second date? Also, does anyone have any advice or have any links to stuff on how to manage expectations appropriately? I don't want to date this girl, but wouldn't mind a steady fuck with no questions asked about who else I'm spending my time with. I don't want this girl tobeant to date me. I want her to want to fuck me regularly.

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My self esteem went through the roof, man I got my swag. -- Jay-Z

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Thanks CB!

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My self esteem went through the roof, man I got my swag. -- Jay-Z