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I haven't been posting up many fields reports due to hectic scheduling but here's one of my field reports. (I'll continue to post some up soon)
I was both excited and nervous before our date. I wanted to take her to one of my favorite club venues in San Francisco instead of the usual movie-dinner thing. So I head out and pick her up.
During our ride to the club, we had a pretty good conversation going. I was teasing her all the time and could tell she was having a good time. Once we arrived to San Francisco, I parked the car and down we walked to the venue. To test and see if she was into me, I decided to hold her hand to witness weather or not she seemed comfortable around me. Fortunately, she responded great. We held hands until we made it to the club. I could tell it was on; this girl was really digging me. I decided to push my luck and go for a kiss close in the club.
Once we enter the venue, I tell her “we should go and make some new friends”. My intentions were to have her see that I am a pretty social guy and capable of making friends easily. So the first set I open were these three attractive ladies. (They were old bust still hot). We introduced ourselves to these ladies and talked a bit about the club for a couple minutes. I tried ignoring my date as I talked to these ladies to build some sort of jealousy plot line to pump up her emotions. When the conversation ended, I looked back at my date and told her that we should go dance. I grabbed her hand, and made her follow me to the dance floor.
As we were dancing, I decided it was time to go direct on her.
Me: I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now. On a scale from 1 to 10, how good are you at kissing? (As I say this, I stare deeply into her eyes)
HBdate: I don’t know yet
Me: well let’s find out
I go in for the kiss, and a full-blown make out ensues. We start making out in the middle of the dance floor and I’m thinking to myself “ this chick so wants it tonight”. She was biting my tongue and lips so hard I probably would have been screaming if I wasn’t turned on.
Me: very aggressive aren’t you. I’ll give you a three out of ten. (She hits my arm and laughs)
Up to this point, my Day 2 with her is pretty solid. I then notice that the flame starts burning down between us, and fast. After our make out session, we continue dancing for a bit more. As our time in the dance floor progressed, I start noticing a gap between us growing. I would say that our gap in the dance floor was about 4 feet apart. On top of that, I wasn’t even talking to her while dancing. It started feeling a little awkward in the dance floor. I didn’t know whether to talk to her while dancing at the same time or just keep silent to myself. To pump her state up a little more, I tell her to turn around so I could grind on her. (That was a stupid move) She did comply but I only got to grind on her for literally 10 seconds until she decided to turn back around. This night was beginning to fall.
To recuperate myself, I tell her we should go and sit down for a little and rest. Once again, my intentions weren’t really to rest but to display my social side. As we sit down, I notice a group of 6, five guys and 1 girl. I open them and begin chatting with them while ignoring my date. Two minutes later, I introduce the guys to my date. Afterwards, I DLVed big time! When I started chatting with the girl from the group, she said something that legitimately was worth a high five, but I instead high five her mouth by accident. I’m thinking to myself, what the fuck did I do. Fortunately, we still kept on talking and later apologized for the incident. I then introduce this girl to my date and get all the facts wrong about my date. I felt dumb.
I then refocus my attention to my date and start talking about what food she thought was an aphrodisiac: strawberries, chocolate or whipped crème. I wanted to get more sexual with her. She elaborates on her point and I tell her that I didn’t listen to a word she said because I was staring at her lips. I go in for another kiss and surely enough, we kiss again. We then started talking about our future aspirations until I decided to take her to the dance floor again.
I swear the dance floor is a trap if you don’t know how to use it to your advantage. It got awkward again between my date and I. We didn’t talk through out our whole dancing session and the gap between us was still 4 feet. Every time I got close to her, she would some how pull away. At this point I’m thinking it’s game over. I just want to leave.
We left the club and headed towards my car. We held hands but it wasn’t the same. I could sense some discomfort from her part, so I decided to let go of her hand. In our ride back home, our interaction got a little awkward. Although it was awkward, I tried my best to keep the conversation flowing. Once we made it to her place, we say our good bye and I go in for another kiss. She gives me the cheek (ouch!) I tell her “that’s not a kiss”. We go for another one and we peck on the lips. Again I tell her, “are you serious, that’s not a kiss either”. She giggles and says goodnight. I leave her place unsuccessful.
The next day she texts me saying that she forgot her I.D in my car and needs it ASAP. I go to her house 15 min later. I call her to let her know I’m outside. She came out and so does her 16yr old sister. I’m thinking my date didn’t want us to be alone. She wanted to use her sister as a shield in case I tried making a move on her. I thought the message was clear: she only wanted to remain friends. I gave her the I.D, gave her a hug, and I leave…
That was basically it. A few days after, I gave her a call and she never answered. At least I learned something...
Cheers,
Nineteen
P.S does anyone know how to add pics in here. Thanks.
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