have been gaming this HB at work.went out of city with her .talking in the car and stuff.

made out a couple of time there .During one time we made out and was going down,she was like I am in the danger zone and can't go all out .did pay attention to it went ahead with more arrousal adn stuff the she afte sometime seh started crying and was like I am getting emotionally attached to you.


Even I got emotional about the whole thing .


Commets needed.

Ask yourself a question, what do you want to achieve with this girl. If you just want to have sex with her slow down, if shes attracted emotionally to you- its just a matter of time. If you want to date this chick just be open about what you feel towards her. Regardless which option you choose, you should get laid

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Jakslip,can yo elabroate on the emotional part.Also she is 6 years elder to me.Tell m she's had 2 relationships.I Thsnk It's a physical want .Have not put that much thought on it.

She';s been aknig wht do I think of her,Do I take her as friend,good friend,girlfriend .etc.

sounds to me like she has been in previous bad relationships. "gaming" her would prob do no good if she's crying about you two having a connection. I guess you could just remind her that you would take care of her as a friend/girlfriend (however you feel) and tell her. o and take this sloooow if you choose the dating aspect.

The answer to that will determine how you respond to her when you two are hanging out and something comes up. I agree that it sounds like her past relationships haven't been the best and she is getting emotional about it because she is really into you and doesn't want to get hurt in the long run.

So what is it that you want to pursuit with her if anything at all?

Guys I can't think of anything .She's sweet and stuff and good at heart,I don't feel like hurting her or playing with her just for the physical aspect.Moreover she's 6 yrs elder to me.
Told me that she likes me and she's all mine.But dont want to play with her.

Need your comments.

Dude we can give you some options but at the end of the day its the matter of how you feel about her. I mean if you like this girl and shes the type you could or even want to date why dont you give it a try?
If it all clicks go ahead with the flow and start dating her properly. Yet then if things are going wrong you can break up anytime, become friends and get another girl. You're a nice guy bcos you dont want just to get laid and leave her afterwards. Thats very, very good because picking up women is not only about having sex with them, its also about satisfying your mental sphere Just ask yourself what do you want to achieve with this girl and pick it up from there mate. Im sure you'll make the right decision!

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Guys I spoke to her and asked her where r we headed(It's been bothering me fo some time now ,so I was like migh as well speak up.
Don't feel like using her and hurting her later.

She was like she is willing to sped her life with me on which I said that we have just met.

I was a very lenghty conversation and She cried as well.

She's like we can give it a try on which I was like after that if things don;t work then waht ?more pain and hurt.

Cant see things clearly.

Ok so you have a LSE, needy and very emotional girl thats in love with you and wants to marry you only having known you for a short period of time. What you got here my friend is a freak. I'd recommend LJBF her and go sarge other women.

Before I found this and other forums on the community I dated a girl with similar characteristics so I'm interested on what the outcome will be. I already have a pretty good idea of hows its gonna play out but we'll see.

Don't hurt her, the universe has a way of punishing you (A.K.A Karma)

Talk to her, go out, maybe get into a relationship. She could be wonderful man! She's saying she'll be devoted to you, she needs you, so she will be faithful to you, or she could go around with the next guy that sweets talk her, or "games" her

But talk to her, if you just want to have sex. Don't use her, she sounds better than the trashy club girls that you wouldn't mind not seeing ever again.

havocc would be helpful if you can you can elabroate on this a bit please.