Hi guys,

This is my first FR. Didn't really intend on going out sarging, my plan was to do the 1st day of the 30 days challenge, i.e. just talk to strangers.

So here it goes.

Started the day feeling excited, I talked to a guy on the tube, just asking about his bracelete, nothing much. At some point I realised a 2 set, HB6.5 and HB5, Asian girls. I am Asian as well and suspected that they were going to China town. Didn't approach straight away coz it was on the tube.

Here is my questions for you: is it a good idea to approach on the tube, because of the situation, it would be nearly impossible to eject if things go out of hand? Or how best to do this?

So when it came to Leicester Squr, I asked them the way to China town, pretended not to know. They happily told me to follow them on the way, which I did. Some small talks on the way, I asked them to suggest a restaurants, where they are from, etc. Turned out they were from HK, but born in UK, and just 17 (Im 22 btw). Never mind. Some more teasing, being funny. HB5 couldn't stop laughing out loud, both seemed hooked. I went for the # close. They were a lil reluctant at first (maybe because not used to be approached by stranger) and asked me to give them mine, so I did and took her number as well. Then we went our seperate ways.

Now the FU.

Saw this HB8 on the tube, far end of the carriage. She was reading the newspaper with the earphones on. Again, I decided to wait till we got out. I followed her out of the station and approached while both were walking.

Quad: Nice shoes, where do you get them from?
HB8 : (took her earphones off) Oh, I got them online, from....
Quad: Actually, I saw you smiling so I was wondering what song are you listening to?
HB8: ... of blackeys

At this point she was turning into a corner, I didn't know to follow her or not, so I said goodbye and turned back.

I think that Im more comfortable with Asian girls, which may explained my #close with the two set. With the HB8(white) maybe because of this that I didn't come through strong enough. Btw, I know that there is no excuse here, just AA and limiting belief need to be got rid of.

Is there anything I could do here? I think I learned some after that and would want to learn more, any comments are welcomed.

Hey dude,

I think the reason you didn't get the numbers of the Asian girls is because you didn't attract them. You needed to spend more time demonstrating value to them.

As for the HB8 on the tube, you should have approached her in the tube. Yes you can approach girls in the tube. As long as you do it the right way. I would suggest establishing eye contact and smile. If she smiles back at you then approach.

Keep on trying, practice will make perfect.

Something to think about is are you confident when you do these approaches? How is your body language? Are you smiling?


Mark

Dude, I did number close the HongKong girl. Thanks for the advice on the tube, great idea, I'll try it.

Never chase them. Make them chase you. Say you've got to go soon and make it a coincidence that you're headed in the same direction. Always take the first step.