| OK for my second field report. Well tonight I decided to take out this guy I work with that needs ALOT of work with the ladies. He could probably actually do alright if he learned to chill and not say stupid things.
So the first set I open is a 5 set. The hottest chicks in the bar. I didn't even warn my AFC buddy, so I know I surprised the hell out of him, hes not use to talking to chicks at all and suddenly without warning hes being forced to talk to girls he would think WAY out his league. The opening went over pretty well, some how I managed to work my way into the center of the group and had a good conversation going.
So everything is going good I have demonstrated value, and was building comfort when my AFC buddy drops the bomb on the girls, "God, Im horny." HAHA. What the fuck did you say, heheh. I found this very amusing.
Ah well, thats what I get for just throwing him to the sharks without any warning. I don't even bother with the chicks after that. I straighten him out and explain a few things. I explain to him everything, how to open, to neg, build comfort, and ect.
Now that hes a little more ready I open all the 2 sets I can find in the bar. Ugly, beautiful, stupid it didn't matter. I don't care in the slightest about the outcome. He watches and surprisingly learns.
He made me proud by the end of the night. We were standing off to the side talking. He points out some chick (HB9) dancing by herself in the corner. I tell him that shes a tough one, because its so late. I turn around to buy a drink and the next thing I know hes crossed the dance floor and is saying something to her. He actually got the girl to dance with him, unforunately thats when the lights came on in the bar. However, in my opinion the mission was a success. He opened a girl all by himself, without being told what to do and she responded favorably.
Any you guys have any suggestions for helping this dude out? He had a secluded life which made him somewhat a socially bumbling moron. Hes improved exponetially since hes been around us, he even seems normally now. The thing is I cant even remember what it was like to be at his level, I am not sure what hes thinking.
What are some good newbie exercises?
Thanks guys.
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