What up..

I met a girl HB9...hung out with her...did extreme kino...grinding in club and almost kising.....I proposed a date after second time I spent with her....she wanted to hang out...so I said saturday night because friday I'm busy with friends birthday party....she was like yeah...I called her that week thuRsday to make suRe and get her address. She was with friends and wanted to know what time but then I think she told me shell call me back...and then she said I'll text you....oR maybe she told me call/text her but idk I did not understand and I was like cool peace.....

Saturday came and no call...so I went out instead to kick it...I texted that night saying what shes doing and no Reply...so the next day I text her and still no Reply so I texted her saying......sRy bout Saturday i left my phone in friends car night before and I didn't get it till sat night.....its been like 8-9 days since that happened.....so I'm thinking is she just being flaky or did I fuck up cause maybe she wanted me to call heR?....I left a text so she knows I hit heR up and its up to heR...now I know I'll see heR again at the same club so should I just text heR one last time?

You've texted her enough. You didn't talk enough about your first interaction to really be able to tell what happened. That is usually what it stems to.

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That usually happens when the girl ain't feeling you. They say they will call you back, meaning they wont.

OK, i Ran into heR in the club this fRiday. She recognized me and called me out, I smiled and looked surprised and huged her...she looked happy...I told her i'm here with friends and let her go and went towards my friends....later on she was dancing close to where I was trying to tease me...

I ignored her...acted like I did not see her. ....my friend wanted to dance with her friend so I went up to her pulled her towards me and she was ready to dance hinting to grind with her...but I was like hey get your friend to dance with my friend ....but then she was like I have to find her so i lety her go and I might have ticked heR off but its cool...later I saw her dancing with a guy close to me...i'm thinking she wanted to make me jealous...she looked at me but I was laying back....like so what....I was walking I didnt even see heR and she shoved me with her hand on my shoulder and I shoved back...(its was a light tap)

Anyways...her best friend knows my friend...and they talked in the club (my friend plays 4 MLS chicago fire) so he is DHV....we left the club..i called up the chick to see if anythings going on...no answer...my friend texted the other girl...she texted saying theres an afterparty...he asked if him and I could come....she texted yeah....we got to the street were it was but we could not find the house...and she was not texting back sso I texted the her friend (the one I hung out with) saying whats the address.we outside....

Anyways...she doesnt text back so i'm like fuck...this is gay...we left....the next day we find out they had a car accident...anyways they are having a birthday party this weekend and my friend was invited a while back...hes gonna find out what day......that giRl is def gonna b there...I want to go...but it might b weird...

any suggestions????????

OK, firstly this bird obviously likes you but i'd say your moving too slow and she mite think your after some kind of long term thing which is why she mite be shy with the reply txt's as she wudnt wanna lead you on.. tbh mate you shud have went for the kiss the first time she was grinden ya!... next time your dancing and she's grindin, take her hands and give her a little spin around until shes facing you, when shes facing you make sure your holding both her hands and move your arms outwards like an aeroplane lol, this will natuarally draw her body close to yours, look her in the eyes, give her a little smile and get that kiss it's no big deal, once you got that kiss you can push things forward.

Don't forget your a man, shes a women and youv'e came across as a nice guy, she'll deffo kiss you but make sure she doesnt walk all over once you get it sorted! good luck

Oh yeh also with regards to the party, get down there and sort it. I had a very similar situation last year i'll exlpain how i did it and maybe you can take some tips.

Basically i was meeting some girl who was my friends, girlfreinds cousin lol, I'd say she was a very hot 9, we were goin on double dates plenty of kissing but never got any further, she came across as a very sweet innocent girl like butter wouldnt melt in her mouth so i took it slow and really wanted to make her my girlfriend, anywayz i basically took it too slow and in the end she simply never replyed to my txts!

It was about 2 months later and it was my friends Bday party and i knew she was gonna be there, I decided b4 I went that I was going to try and get back into her and see if i could get sex as she clearly didnt want anything long term.

Sooo I'm at this party and she walks in with her sister and some lad, i shit myself at first and thought oh fuck she's got a BF now but quickly realised that it was her sisters BF and not hers, so as she's at the bar i casually walk up and say hi, give her a kiss on the cheek and see how she's been even tho it was so awkward knowing she had blanked my txt's the last time but I just acted like i wasnt bothered.

Later on in the night i seen her sitting on her own so I sent a txt saying " u look a little lonely over there" she replyed with summit i cant remember what but basically i was letting her know i was still interested.

During the night i flirted with the other girls and made sure that she could see, later on i sat next to her and started talking, then i asked her to come for a dance and as we was dancing i just sed "how about a kiss for old times" and the job was done, another thing i done was pinch her arse as she walked past during the night, about an hour later she did it back to me and give me this look like "fuck me" and i knew i was on track.

After the party we was walkin back to my mates for the after party and I only live around the corner, we was talken and I happened to find out that she'd slept with someone since we had stopped meeting, this pissed me off as i felt it shud have been me! but at the same time I knew this shudnt be a problem to get it all the way, i said in a cheeky tone "why don't you stay in mine tonight" and she looked at me and smiled and said "what for" so i said "use your imagination" and she was clearly loven it, long story short i fucked her all over the place and did do for about 6 weeks until she blanked me again!

She turned out to be a total bitch but came across so cute and innocent!! great shag like so tips to possible use at that party.

1. send her a little flirt txt is she looks alone at any point.
2. flirt with the other girls and get your wing to see it she's watching
3. give her arse a pinch as your walk past, smile, possibly wink and walk away. If she does it back at any point your deffo in there and getting that kiss is all upto you!

P.S - Sorry bout the long story lol

Perhaps if you stopped pretending to ignore her and actually communicated her that you were a man that was interested in her but didn't need her then maybe she'd do the same.

Sometimes, girls just aren't into you. Accept it and move one. There's billions of em bro, let it go.

David