Walked into a bar with a friend, and I met eyes with the HB 8 as I walked in but there were a lot of hot women in this bar so, we walked around to assess the situation. Grabbed a drink and started sarging a 2 set at the bar... this didn't go to well as they were friend with the dj and the bartender and brushed us off... Then I saw this girl who I saw as I walked in standing behind me.... I immediately thought proximety alert and cheers her glass, and said hello. Started right off with '2 girls fighting outside' opener, she was engaging, good body language. Gave myself a time restraint, and then used 'maury povich' opener on her... she liked this one and really got into it... went kino..put my hand on her upper arm / shoulder, she put her hand on my arm.. IOI... before I asked for her number she asked my age, as I look young, and now I konw why, because she is 33. Told her I really liked talking with her and would love to do it again.... told, (not asked) her to give me her number (politely of course) and I put it into my phone. Left to go to another bar with my friend.

I have now been on 1 date with her, went well... she is an educated business woman... hard to run some technology on her. Have to be more C/F. Walked her home, but no kiss close... I chickend out. I had the 'you smell amazing' close ready to go and then chickened out. We hugged and agreed to meet up again.

A week later after some messages back and fourth she told me that she had agreed to see someone exclusively. I was a little dissapointed but instead of being upset, told her good luck with that and that she has my number if she ever wants to have fun. Yesterday decided to text her after 2 weeks and she was thrilled to hear from me...she said her exclusive situation was just alright. I could tell she wasn't too happy or she would have told me right away. After some text game, she wants to meet up for drinks next week.

I need some 'closing' game to make sure I don't chicken out when it comes to kiss closing her and maybe more?

Please help if you got anything you think would be good.

no older women is going to go out with a younger guy just to chit chat and "hang out." You are already in an advantage. Cougars want sex, they need the sex. It is all up to you to project your sexuality and escalate the situation rather than ending another date with a friendly hug.

her story sounds like bs. So her "exclusive" relationship only lasted 2 weeks? surrrrreeeeeee. Basically you were too friendly with her on the first date you didn't make your move and she doubted your manliness and instead of giving you the "i like you as a friend" or whatever friend card she could have used, she used this one instead. Remember that we have to do all the work when it comes to women. We have to lead the interaction, we have to escalate it (unless they want you so bad and are aggressive themselves but this rarely happens). With older women this is even easier because they are even more hungry for sex sometimes, play less games and the simple fact that

cougar going out with younger guy = she wants it

She is basically giving you another chance to make your move she probably doesn't have other options from what I get from the bs sounding story and you showed persistence. Keep up the kino, make more eye contact and talk slower in a more seductive way rather than social/hanging out w a friend way. Introduce the topic of sex,kissing etc into the conversation to get her thinking about it.

anytime you spot an opening (she giving you those eyes, looking at your lips, her mouth slightly open, moment of silence with eye contact and her eyes moving back and forth from your yes to your lips) its time for you to move for the kiss. I think shes waiting for it!