| Alright, so I've JUST gotten into this whole scene after reading The Game (I know, typical). So, my lingo and game are sub-par but I could use some opinions/advice on what to do in the following situation... in which I may come off as a slight asshole. I'll change the names because it's fun.
Weeks ago, I was really drunk and made out with this girl (Bertha). who I'm not at all attracted to (come on, we've all done this). So, Bertha starts calling me to come over and (surprise!) I'm busy. Now, Bertha and I have a lot of similar friends, so that leads me to the next point. I go out last night to pursue this girl (Holly), but Bertha is there too! I manage to seduce Holly despite Bertha being there (which normally would be really disconcerting to me, but wasn't that night). Also, I had my first chance to disarm an AMOG! It worked out alright, but I think the girl was into me enough that I didn't have to worry about it (so, if that happens, should I even worry about the AMOG?).
Continuing on, we end up staying at the bar until close and we're all too shit-faced to drive home. So, guess who lives within a quarter mile of the bar? That's right! Bertha! So, we start walking back to Bertha's apartment and Holly and I are making out on the walk back (Bertha's so drunk I'm not even sure she was aware we were with her). Now, Holly manages to get Bertha to go to bed (not too hard, since she basically passed out as soon as she lays down).
So, I want to escalate things at this point. My jargon is shit, but I think F-close is the word I'm searching for here. So, we start making out and feeling each other up on Bertha's couch. I go to take off her pants and she has to go to the bathroom (I'm still conflicted as to whether or not this was just a way to get out of the situation...). So, I'm cool about it and just go grab a drink.
When she gets back, we go back to the couch and it's about 4 a.m. at this point. We make out a little more and she says she thinks we should go to sleep. I'm sort of O.K. with that since I have to wake up in 3 hours, but I'd still rather F-close, so I'm a little disappointed. But, here's a question: do you think she really wanted to sleep or that was her way of trying to get in MY pants?
Now, here's where I get confused. We lay down together on the couch and she's still grabbing me but I'm tired and still very drunk at this point, so I'm out cold (I am very disappointed in myself, believe me). Now, I wake up in the morning and she's fucking GONE! The door to Bertha's apartment is wide open and Holly is nowhere in site. So, Bertha wakes up and I help her take her dogs out, wondering what the hell is going on. I still want to hook up with this girl, but I don't know whether her leaving is a good sign or a bad sign. What do you think? Am I still in the zone where I can pursue? If so, how? I'm not interested in a relationship, so if I want to close right next time, should I just run the same game and try to end up at a place more conducive to fucking?
Thanks for the advice,
Medicine
P.S. Be gentle, I'm a newb in this sector of society...
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