Tonight I had one intention in going out and that was to have a good time. I started early by going to a bar and having a few drinks. Then I went to one of my regular places where I am on the VIP list. I was having a good time just BS'ing with my friends and so on. Needless to say, I got bored of them and started looking at other groups to go mingle with.

I found a group of 5 guys and 1 girl and figured I wouldnt have any problems cause I am a bullshit artist and I LOVE to bullshit. I started chatting with 3 of the guys and ignored the others because they said they didnt want to hear my stories. W/e, I didnt care. I was out for a good time and damn it, I was going to have one. Long story short, all but one guy ended up trying to AMOG /ME because the guy with the girl was telling them to get rid of me.

Twist of the whole story is I told one of my friends that I was ready to crack some skulls on the guys behind us for disrespecting me. 10min later the entire group was behind me and was asking me if there was a problem. My friend was also a friend of the the entire group(wasnt aware of this) had spoken to them. I told them, YES, there was no reason to be treating me like shit. I wasnt after the one girl of the group, I was out to have a good time. After talking to the one guy, he asked if there was anything he could do and apologized. (I KNOW, very awkward situation.) I told him to look me in the eyes and apologize, after he did that, I told him we were cool, but the rest of his group wasnt.

The alpha male of the group was listening in on our conversation along with his girl and decieded to step in. When he stepped up, I stepped even closer and his girl could tell I was ready to drop a mofo. I guess I got lucky when he stepped back and apologized also, cause 5 on 1 isnt my normal odds. His girl just kept on talking, but I ignored her and put all my attention into what the main guy was saying. He realized I was out to have a good time and could easily drop his entire group of friends. What he didnt know is that I was packing tonight. He and his friends got lucky and did the right thing.

Moral of the story! You never know who or what you are dealing with when it comes to complete strangers. Be safe, have a good time, and respect those around you and you cant go wrong.

Looks to me like u really care about stuff. Just relax. U said u wanna have a good time but need to AMOG people anyways and get respect and stuff. In other words: Your game is shit!

In the end it was your fault, think about it:
- You probably didnt put in any false time constraints
- Your stories werent congruent and hence not interresting
- Your body language was threatening wrong or needy

Work on your game. You know yourelf why you got blown out of the set. Dont blame it on others. mPUAs go out every night, opening sets like snapping a finger. No problems...why can they do it? Well their game is great!

My opinion. Take it or leave it. Cheers,
SPAM

I always take any and all feed back. Thank you SPAM. Its always great to get a second opinion of a situation because it opens a few different sides of the situation I didnt see before. Also, it gets me thinking about what I need to fix.

-My time constraint was valid. I didnt want to stay in that group of guys.
-I wasnt telling a story, the one guy said he didnt want to hear any of my stories. I was giving the others a test. The ones that were standing around the same table all night watching girls and doing nothing. They were bored, a blind person could of known this.
-I need to pay more attention to my body language. I'm confident, but I dont know how I come off.

As for my game being "shit" because I dont allow myself to get walked on, you are dead wrong on that. I used to allow it in the past and I felt weak and insignificant to the world. The one guy was so blaintantly disrespectful ANYONE would of been "WTF is wrong with this douche bag?" I need to learn how to disarm his type of personality, cause I havent run into it before.

And YES I do truely care about respect.

Foremost, packing and having confidence because of it is totally uncool. This is coming from a fellow marksman and Second Ammendment true believer.

A firearm is a tool. Its only job is to kill things. If you are going places that put your life at risk enough that you feel the need to carry, you need to change the venues you sarge.

John Wayne did not carry firearms everywhere, except for when he knew his life was in danger. Randolph Scot, the same. Along with most of the old Western movie heroes.

Clint Eastwood ALWAYS carried, but that was because he was a man who was ALWAYS ready to kill. But, when Eastwood played Dirty Harry Calahan, he didn't always carry.

Nothing but respect, my friend. My respect for you is that you have a desire to learn to be a better man. Work on getting respect because of you, not because of what you wield.

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I think approaching a set of 1 girl and 5 guys is rather silly in the first place.

I will never show or even mention that I have anything. EVER! I brought it up to state the fact, you never know what a stranger might have or do. I just re-read what I posted and should of added that they were lucky cause I wasnt going to back down, not because I would of shot them.

/salute Sincerelee

Ugh, hopefully this isn't the type of person that the community attracts these days.

I was absolutely disgusted that the OP bragged he was packing and used it as a means of resolution to conflict.

Absolutely filthy...

How about you read everything that was posted and then wig out. Until then, shut ur flapping vag.

yeah I aggree too. Since you were already out with friends why would u need to make more male friends? 5 guys 1 girl is an obvious sign that the girl isnt free anyway.

Correct me if I'm wrong but, I clearly read "They didn't know I was packing, They got lucky and did the right thing"


P.s.

Swearing is a sign of weakness.

It's sometimes a sign of flaming (breaking forum rules).

Thread locked before shit got out of hand.