| ok so here's my story.
at the first day of school in my first class i was late. then i saw a vacant chair right in front of the room. so when i was about to seat i noticed that the arm-chair was built differently ( u need to seat from the right instead from the left), so the girl beside my laughed at me quietly and then i looked at her in the eyes and said " I'm sorry" (with a great smile in my face). so we talked a little bit before the professor started talking. after that we talked more and by that time i wasn't gaming her at all. just a normal conversation, but the thing is, the eye contact was always present. we exchanged numbers.
saturday night of the 1st week i decided to just asked her to hang out. we attended a party.
-picked her up at her place.
-opened the car door for her ( i know that this is kind of afc move but i'll tell u the purpose later.)
-arrived at the party.
-she was the only american there ( we were all Filipinos ) so it ended up just me and her talking.
-more people came, i introduced myself to them, and i introduce her.
-i did the 5-Lie game, she lost of course.
then we went to the garage coz that's where the people at. We ended up sitting next to the garage door.
She: have u ever dated someone before?
me: of course i did, do i look like the one who ddn't have a gf before?
she: no, it just that u'r so nice, u open the door for me, u bla bla
me: oh.. no its not coz of that, its just because i was raised that way.
she:wow. i really like it, very few people do that now, girls are special so we need to be taken care of.
me: that's right. EVERY girl deserves to be taken care of..
because i was near the garage door, i opened the door to almost all the girls in the room. all of them thanked me and smiled at me.
we danced. i leave her once in a while to let her enjoy herself and for me to know the other girls in the room. Another girl literally asked me to guide her to the bathroom even though it is very obvious where it's at. (this girl was the girl who was standing earlier in the party and i offered my seat to her.)
lots of dancing, drinking...
i left again for same reason..
when i came back.
she: i really like u nivram. (while dancing)
me: i think i like u too. ( i wasn't ready for this cause i don't really have routines yet)
she: (kissed me)
we kissed, dancd, kissd, dance, kissd, dance...
then i decided to take her home coz i thought she's drunk already.
she thanked me for taking care of her bla bla bla
night ended...
we were textng...
seeing each other in class....
but the thing is i realized that i wasn't really into her..
i stopped building attraction to her...
today i ended it up by saying i have a gf in the philippines (which i really do) coz she txtd me that about my profile in myspace which is "in a relationship" and it turnd out the she was just joking when she txtd me "you have a gf in the philippines! ha" i said - yes. that ended it all. she got mad.
she: u never mentioned me that you have a gf.
me: u never asked.
she: i kissd u and i liked u bla bla bla bla
me: im sorry i ddnt mean to upset u
she:bla bla bla bla
me:bla bla bla
she: bye
me: be safe.
REALIZATION:
-being a gentleman can really attract a girl if u show her that u are a natural gentleman.
-eye contact HELPS a lot.
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so any tips? any suggestions what should i do next? i dont want her ignoring me in class.
damn i shouldn't told her this early.. that's my fault..
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