Advice guys,

and respect to Style and his book.

A success story so far?

I got chatting to an external customer at work over the phone. Did a bit of verbal flirting and arranged to bump into her in a club the following night
Then we swapped a few SMS’s, in which she was asking me what ladies underwear I liked etc. I was not going to fail her crude test.

she said she was separated but hubby lived at home. I negged her a few times in the club but then her hubby turns up in the club so I go sarging over the other side of the bar : end of story for that night
I deliberately didn’t SMS her but two days later (yesterday) I get a ‘sorry’ SMS.

in my reply I got straight to the point - “we need to meet up”
then I get SMS shit off her like ‘my other half is a door man on a night club and a bit of gangster”

I replied,”So what, I’m not interested in him”

Then she writes, “so you don’t mind been seeing with a gangster’s ex mol?”

I thought I can’t be bothered with this shit and I write back “well you’ve got my number, it was a pleasure anyway, good luck”
I thought fuck it, there’s plenty more fish to fry. Then straight away she replies saying she was only joking and that her ex only goes in for body building competitions but isn’t a psycho. She caught him having an affair and threw him out. He’s returned to the house cos he doesn’t want to give it up. In her opinion he’s also too nice and predictable and boring. They are only together for her children’s sake and if i want to walk away she'll still buy me a drink if we run into each other on a club.

i stand my ground.

She offers a ‘discreet meet up for later in the week’

So I have arranged a meet at the beach by my house for Friday afternoon (today is Tuesday)

Do you think I should just contact her the day before or SMS once a day SMS (keeping my hand in ) or will that make me look needy? Up to now I have only replied to hers…making myself the prize.

She’s a 10/10 a dance teacher and also coaches pole dancers, I wanna see this through to F-close.

Any advice for my game plan?


(ps. i hope this is formatted alright)

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