There I am back again.... I had a date last night, well I went out for a drink with a girl. Is that always a date? She is my second Italian... this one was an 8, a high 8! It was her birthday and I had texted her in the morning. Later in the day I gave her a call and we had a nice not to long conversation about what she normally does on her birthday. At the end of the conversation we came to the conclusion that I had to pick a location and we would go there, she would invite some others.

I went for a pizza and watched some TV at home, and I recieved a message from her. We had a little conversation with messages:

Hb8: "We have to prospone, everybody is tierd and is going to sleep"

Me: "Like you wish! If you want to be alone on your birthday..."

Then it was silent for some time, and I though I fucked up. I hate feeling like I fucked up.. Bleep, a new message:

Hb8: "Don't be mad at me.... If you are ok with it, we can go together!"

I felt like she gave this option some thinking (because it took her sometime to respond) and I waited a bit with my response. After a few minutes I sent:

Me: "I'm ok with that! Shall we go to (name of a bar)?"

Hb8: "Lets go! Where and when do we see each other?"

Me: "Shall I pick you up, I have an extra helmet."

Hb8: "Ok. (place name)? Is 22.30 ok?"

Me: "I'll be there"

At this point my stomach was somewhere on top of my head, because I was actually going with her. When ever I saw her, it was with other people. I could talk to other people and sometimes to her. I was happy, but very nervous... The best way to get rid of the feeling, was by setting my goal for the night. Normally going out with a lady like this, I go in without a goal and hope on kissing her which makes me feel pressure in the end. I decided to make it a better night and just go for the fun ad conversation, some of the nervousness left my body and I felt better. Still a little tense, but that keeps me sharp and motivates me to pay attention.

I picked her up and we had a fun night. We talked about her work and what else she was doing. What I did on my holiday and what she did when I was gone. We basically had small talk and we laughed. I managed to give her one neg, and continue the conversation. After some drinks we went home and I dropped her of at her house. Gave her two "cheak kisses" and she said that we should go out with everybody on Thursday or Friday.

At the end I felt I really was the one keeping up the conversation and I was wondering if I should keep on doing so, I hate silences but maybe wasn't giving her the chance to ask me questions. I had the feeling she changed a bit to moment we met, after the SMS conversation, whihc in my opinion was succesfull. I had to win her again when we were in person, and that is a lot harder. There were no wierd silences, so that was good. I couldn't figure out what she tought of the evening. How can I find this out, without directly asking and being needy... I don't want to be needy, then I am sure she will see right through me!

What is you opinion when you read this? What is your view on the events happend? How do you think I should go on? Should I go on or wait foor her to contact me?

Hope you can help me guys!!

Belushy


"It's the little victories that lead to the big ones!"

hey dude

sounds like u did alright. but i kinda wonder if you really gamed hur enough. seems u talked a lot about work, freetime, interests, if ya don't mind me sayin, thats pretty boring shit.

ya gotta get the conversation moving in two directions fun and sensual. did you challenge her to a thumb wrestle (and cheat if need be), loser kisses the winner? There's always something a chick does that you can bust her balls over, some dumb thing she says or does. when ur walking along with her gently push her into a wall. ya gotta be a bit crazy

ya gotta be askin her stuff like when was the last time she had sex? does she self help? of course to pull these questions off, ya already shoulda established a cocky/funny frame. did u run the cube on her? did u do styles EV routine? tell her some funny stories about you or yr friends.

were you doing kino?? two cheek kisses.......dat sounds a bit lame. as she went to kiss u on the cheek did quickly turn yr head to plant one on her mouth??

sounds like u got some work to do. don't worry bout wot she thought of the evening. remember set yourself up as da prize. if i were u i would chill for a few days. i'm not trying yo shoot holes in yr MO, but it sounds like ya should be downloading some free shit from the net and do some serious studyin.

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dm

Thanks man! That helps!

Could you help me with one more thing? Ik am looking for he explanation of the cube.. I really want to try it out, but I can't find how it actually works....

Thanks!

dude

here's da link. read everything maniac writes, he's da man alright

http://www.pickupguide.com/entrcube.htm

cheers
dm

Thanks man, I am trying it but it is not completely smooth... do you have any other tips like this?

Ciao