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This is my FIRST night out sarging.. Here's the field report:
(My research has been "The Game" + "Mystery Method"+Youtube videos:
Went out tonight with 2 wings. First time out using PUA methodology (I've always been a disaster with women). First HB7 met at thanksgiving party.. Forward merged into 2 HB 7.5's with first girl at my side (asked her, 'let's go meet other people")..Set definitely opened easy.. Went with 2 wings to play pool with 2 HB 7's, then bowling, got phone # of 1 HB 7.
Then went to reggae club with 2 wings no girls. Sat down introduced myself to 2 HB7's, nothing. Then turned 180 degrees at the bar and introduced myself another HB7, lots of IOI's. Got number.
(Wing is bugging me here, let's go home.. I say we need to approach 5 more sets before going LOL)
Went around the bar, saw 2 HB9's sitting, went with wing and approached. Chatted "they serve campaign here?" Eventually used false time constraint (not immediately--"i gotta go in a sec, looking for friend). Used "Pick a number between 1-10"- worked great, 1 girl picked 7, then did 1-100 , one girl picked 22, worked great. I had no lock in prop(!), girls ordered and ate pizza (I'm giving signs IOD's) then girls had to go to bathroom. Girls never came back! (They were on other side getting hit on by 2 other guys).
Approached 4 mixed set (1 guy)--- wing was already sitting down with girls. Introduced myself, started chatting.. 1 HB8.5 shows IOI's after I tell her about the joys of travel ("True or false.. I traveled around the world for 3 years").. . After 15-25 minutes of convo + kino I tell her "Put my number in your phone".. (I also befriended guy who was very nice). She immediately does it. I say, now call me. I tell her "you are a nature person, you want to go canoeing, no strings attached.. you can bring a friend". She responds yes. "Let's go to dance", I don't look back, she follows me to dance floor.
Now we are on dance floor. I don't know what to do b/c I haven't read anything about dance pickup. So I just continue to escalate kino by rubbing her shoulders.. But I don't want to grind on her, I want her to draw back to grind me.. We have a little contact for 15 min, then wing tells me he wants to go.. I Tell girl "you are a very special girl".. She tells me "u are special guy" .. I leave, telling her I'll call her soon.
I used to be a total disaster, now I'm getting HB8's.. Since I got 4 girls to agree to go canoeing with me (from pu tonight) and my wing, we are going next week 4 girls and 2 of my wings.
The one that bugs me is the 2 HB 9's leaving after they say they are going to bathroom. I know i Had no lock in prop.. Anything else I should have done?
Btw, this all happened between 4PM - 1:20AM tonight.
Also.. here are a few MAJOR things that have helped me:
1) Not "chicken pecking" the conversation. (Ie. leaning my head in to listen to what they have to say if its loud).
2) Leaning back against the bar in a power position.. This worked great, as an HB9 passed I said something to her as she was walking by, and then she drew close to me for a min to chat.
3) Talking slower and louder.
4) Showing IOD's like turning away, talking to her friends, etc.
I'd love feedback and helpful suggestions!
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