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PostPosted: Sat Dec 13, 2008 11:30 am 
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So i know this girl, and have known her for a few years. and she recently moved from scotland to near where i live, so i asked if she wanted to go out to a club or somethin, and she said she'd love to, so we went out last night, and i'm afraid to say i'm ashamed of myself. :( first of all i got AMOGed to fuck by this guy who came over. i tried to act like the bigger man by not being bothered but still insulting him jokingly but meaningfully, and when she was looking away i kept giving him the eye. but he eventually went away, but not without degrading me in her books, then to recover i tried to use the cube routine, and i got all the answers from her, i remembered what the cube ment, but the ladder, and the horse, i just went blank. i just stood there, frozen trying to remember. couldnt remember what they was sposed to mean, i tried blagging it but failed miserabley. so in the end after failing, i jsut decided t drink lol. and then i asked if i could stay over coz i didnt wanna pay 14 quid for a taxi, and she said yes, but i'd have to go b4 her parents woke up.

I didnt try anything dudes! what is rong with me! i mean i slept in her bed, her in pyjamas, and me in my boxers, and i didnt try anything. i mean she was asleep in like 5 mins, but still. all night i didnt try to kiss close, or anything.

I'm going to need to read up and practice my game alot more before i try anything again lol.

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If he was really asleep in 5 minutes, there might not have been a whole lot you could do.

But when a girl is at the point that she is going to spend the night in your bed, the situation is not going too badly.

Now, when the girl is not showing a lot of interest as was the case with her, I would not get into bed with her until later. Or possibly get in but then act like you remembered something more important and jump back out. Then make your self occupied with that. If she is still awake at this point she'll think that you feel like there are more important things in your life than having a girl in your bed.
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hmm the only problem was it was her bed, coz she lives alot closer to town then me, so it made sence for me not to spent £15 on a taxi, when i could have slept in her bed. i think it was me who said that "i'm gonna stay round yours, if thats ok?"

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and thanks colourblindprofit :), i'll rember that stuff for next time about doing other stuff before i go to bed.

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First off... It sounds like you didn't fail too miserabley...She let you sleep in her bed.
Second, by sleeping in her bed, and not tyring anything, either she'll feel safer next time you try to get into bed with her, or else, she'll see you as "One of the girls", because you didn't try anything. You might want to tease her and tell her she is a very sound sleeper, and you had your way with her while she slept... Tell her you took pictures with your phone, and you'll show 'em to her next time you see her... It'll definatley build some sexual tension
Third... It takes some big brass one's, in my opinion, to sleep in her bed, when obviously, she still lives at home, and obviously, her parents were home... People get shot for stuff like that. (Or castrated..LOL) I'd advise you to make plans next time, and have a place for both of you to spend some "Quality Time", without having to worry if mom or dad might walk in... But thats just me.
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You might want to tease her and tell her she is a very sound sleeper, and you had your way with her while she slept... Tell her you took pictures with your phone, and you'll show 'em to her next time you see her... It'll definatley build some sexual tension
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I think that would gross her out.

At least you built enough comfort with her to let you sleep in the bed.
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You might want to tease her and tell her she is a very sound sleeper, and you had your way with her while she slept... Tell her you took pictures with your phone, and you'll show 'em to her next time you see her... It'll definatley build some sexual tension
i don't think that would creep her out if you are joking and she has a sense of humor.

she let you stay in her bed. obviously you did something right, because that is personal space. also, she was comfortable enough to sleep. i don't know about other girls, but i can't sleep with someone that i don't trust or like even in the room. (maybe i'm just paranoid...) but if she let you stay, that's good.
but i agree that you should make plans for next time. staying in parents' house is not a brilliant idea.

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So i know this girl, and have known her for a few years. and she recently moved from scotland to near where i live, so i asked if she wanted to go out to a club or somethin, and she said she'd love to, so we went out last night, and i'm afraid to say i'm ashamed of myself. Sad first of all i got AMOGed to fuck by this guy who came over. i tried to act like the bigger man by not being bothered but still insulting him jokingly but meaningfully, and when she was looking away i kept giving him the eye. but he eventually went away, but not without degrading me in her books, then to recover i tried to use the cube routine, and i got all the answers from her, i remembered what the cube ment, but the ladder, and the horse, i just went blank. i just stood there, frozen trying to remember. couldnt remember what they was sposed to mean, i tried blagging it but failed miserabley. so in the end after failing, i jsut decided t drink lol. and then i asked if i could stay over coz i didnt wanna pay 14 quid for a taxi, and she said yes, but i'd have to go b4 her parents woke up.

I didnt try anything dudes! what is rong with me! i mean i slept in her bed, her in pyjamas, and me in my boxers, and i didnt try anything. i mean she was asleep in like 5 mins, but still. all night i didnt try to kiss close, or anything.

I'm going to need to read up and practice my game alot more before i try anything again lol.

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If this keeps up your going to loose her, if you havn't lost her already! she may think your "too nice" for her.

Either way it seems to me like your making to big of a deal out of everything, you gotta understand that even if you don’t know the cube, your not some expert on psychological bullshit, just ask her what a ladder means to her or what a horse means to her or whatever, your just having fun. The fact that you two slept together but in the morning didn’t do anything? that’s troubling. I think you need to relax, relax relax relax, lean back, don’t jive on me and act all mellow and cool, i just mean relax take a deep breath, step back.. she invited you over to fuck, basically that was it, a quicky!

You screwed up, reading up doesn’t help! some of this stuff should be by instinct, bring out the sexxy, or watch some piere woodman ;)

In a very odd way it helps you realise what your true nature as a man is!

Link below!

And dont do stuff like this to yourself again, that just hurts you! next time go for the shag, you are more then capable!

We've all had things like this happen, just forget it, figure out how to do it next time and do it.

http://www.tube8.com/hardcore/pierre-wo ... ting/1082/

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Hey guys thanks for all the tips, i'll text her in the morning when she'll be awake about the pictures and everything. i havent spoke to her since friday really. on saturday morning i did, but otherwise i havent.

But i think impact, and flypapermeems, might have a point about she might see me as a friend.... the term is like stuck in my dictionary now, i've heard it so many times. lol. but on the plus side, i might be able to break it the friendship barrier next time.

And thanks impact, for that bit on the cube :D that has helped alot for not being able to remember parts of the cube. i cant believe i didnt think of that. any way i'm going to one of my major cities on thursday to go xmas shopping, so i'm gonna try to build confidence by trying to hit on some of the store assistant girls.

Thanks again guys. :) if there's anymore advise anyone can give me, please do let me know, but if not, no worries :).

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