Here's the deal. I know a group from another school and I accidently added this girl (one of their friends) on FB OK? We got chatting and I really like her. Here's the chat. Advice appreciated, now what's my next step? For the record, we'll call this girl HB. When you read, yes we always sit outside the pub LOL, you'll see what I mean!! Sorry for the long read - just see what you think : ) Remember I'm a complete newbie at picking up girls!!!
HB: Helloo? Thanks for the add : ) lol Do I know you? x
Me: lool we met last night, at the pub : ) its mike lol, remember me? : ) x
HB: lol i wasnt at the pub last night.. did you meet alice? cos i wasnt with her at that point, i think she was with beki rachel and clarissa lol
x
Me: oh haha!! Yeh I was with alice and those other girls lol, sorry!! : P I added you because alice's status had your name in it about last night,( so I assumed you were with them at the pub) : ) .... that and the fact that you are gorgeous aha lol, i had to add you! : ) x Hope you don't mind!
HB: haaha, nopee i wasnt there
i didnt go til really late cos i was working! but they told me about youu, and some other guys but i cant remember really.. :S
ha aww taa, wasnt it you lot who got the vodka??
x
Me: Ahh i seee : P The other guy who was with me, Stu, he got the drink for you i think lol I went off at 9:30 or so because my brother was at the pub also, amongst us all..and my mum didn't want to come out twice in the evening! Plus I didn't want to get the train because I'm scared of walking in the dark! lol! : ) x
HB: oh cool, we were a bit tipsy i must admit
theres like tons of photos, too bad to put on facebook though lool! ohh cool, whats your brothers name? haha aww, so am i actually i hate the dark outside..
where do you live then?xx
Me: Haha! I bet you were tipsy!
And I'm sure those photos aren't that bad! I'm sure your beauty is evident, even in a drunken state!! lol : ) ... umm my brother's andrew, goes to my school (reigate grammar), but 2 years below me so he's **: ) I live in **** though, so a 15 min trip to ****. How about you? You at St. bedes like alice? : ) And all these trips to the pub outside aren't even my idea! Went out last weekend and it was even worse..it was raining!
lol xx
HB: haha they are they are trusst me! maybe a feew will be put up, the best ones
lool, and really my "beauty" isnt evident when im drunk!!
oh cool cool
yeah im at bede's lol, ah yeah i never go there anymore.. i used to go loads when it was really nice though! its good for pissups aha xo
Me: Haha! Well i'll look forward to seeing them drunken piccuys then!! xD lol And yes the pub is good for one use these days lol I never really used to go there when it was nice really, only started going there recently, for the past two weeks neway!! : ) xo
HB: Lolol, well il put them up sooon (Y)
Hahah, winters literally like the worsttt time to go! Bloody frezing and all rainy
I remember liek this time last year we went there when we'd broken up for xmas, it was bloody cold lol!! You been up to much? xx
Me: Loool indeed winters are a bitch, especially when you're standing outside in the evening in the freezing cold. Next time I think i might actually do something rather than sit in the rain lol and feeze me bits off!!!! : P aha!
I just got a ton of work SPAM, A levels taking over my life : ( lol And I'm kinda not doing good at school right now : ( My teachers practically hate me because I do bad work lol, ah welllll!!
Can't wait for Xmas break up!! How about yourself? Much planned for the hols?
HB: Hahah well that sounds like a pretty good ideaaa
Ahh yeah im finding school soo hard SPAM! but i finished all my mocks last week so happy about that!
Ermm nah not been doing alot, went shopping earlier, and yeahh im going to mauritius in the holidaysss! Cant waiit
you doing anything? xx
Me: Ahh great! How did the mocks go? They GCSE mocks right?
I went shopping with a friend yesterday before I went to the pub, was funfun : )) Raided the topman shop, and now I have zilch left on my natwest card LOL : ( But all money well spent !! And omgodnessh Mauuritiuuss : o
o !! can I come with? haha! that must be amazing, have a good time ! We have no money to go anywhere this year because my parents split, we don't have as much : P Buut there's nothing like christmas in your own home : )) What dates you going to mauritious (difficult spellinglol) x By the way, the drunky piccys were worth your while putting them up!! lol veeryy nice aha!
HB: Ohh haha, erm they are pretty bad thoughhh! Funny at the same time LOL
x
Yeahh they were, erm they were okay but history and maths were the worst, reeaally hard!
Aww, poor you
but its worth it if its from topshop/topman!
Haha thanksss
im going like the 21st december and coming bak new years dayy.
Aww, thats bad. Sorry to hear about that! :/.. But yeahh thats very true im missing all the christmas telly! Thats what im annoyed about lloool x
Me: LOL yeh the pics are a laf!
And yes I love topshop : ) Most things in there anyway..
Umm,, could I be a cheeky bum and ask for your no.? If I'm in reigate again with my bunch then perhaps we could do something again with yourr kkoooll group
.. or vise virsa! I think a friend of mine (who was in reigate last night) knows a few of your friends, alice and a couple of others I think. She's steph wright, know who she is? x
HB: haha, ahh good timess.
yeahh so do i! mm its so good! and i love the pants in there lol.
yeah sure whyy nott.. ill email it to you yeps? that sounds good, umum ive heard the name cant remember if ive met her or not cos i did once meet a steph, is she going out with elliot?? x
Me: haha the pants are well good lol! I saw a pair of boxers in another shop and it had on them: 'Want to play soldiers? I'll lie down and let you blow me away!' HAHA
It was so funny lol
Thankoo for the no. we'll arrange something.
As for steph, no I don't think she's going out with anyone at the mo, and not heard of an elliot, except an elliot hart that goes to my schooool lolx : )
HB: ahaaa.. i love stuff like that its so immature!
thats alrriiight
and yeahh, we'll have to get our groups together at some stage! u need to text me though so i know yours
ohh right im probs thinkin of the wrong person then lol! x
Me: Lol, I have a lil immature side to me, BUT I'm more mature than immature, just slightly
I'll send you a text, let you know its mee and indeed we'll get our people together sometime. I don't think many of my group are away this xmas..i know you are, but we'll work round it, see what comes along. And if you're up to much, feel free to pass us a text, we're always up for a laf
lolx
HB: haha, everyone does dont they lol?
okay, will do
im back for like a couple of days, not sure whats going on though so il let you know on that one! and the steph i know isnt steph wright lol
x
Haha I guess everyone does yes
And ok yeh you probs got the wrong steph there hehe
.. our steph is nice though : ) will be fun to meet up. TTyl x
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We exchanged numbers via private message and she told me to text her in bed because she was going to be bored
This was quite an unusual long conversation especially since we'd never met in real life! What would you do next in terms of contact? This convo took place on Sunday evening - we were at the pub on Saturday evening. On Monday, at 4:00PM I texted her asking how her day was, had a lil chat, lasting 5 mins or so via text.
What's my next move and how should I treat this situation? You think she likes me? I have no idea
CHAT
o !! can I come with? haha! that must be amazing, have a good time ! We have no money to go anywhere this year because my parents split, we don't have as much : P Buut there's nothing like christmas in your own home : )) What dates you going to mauritious (difficult spellinglol) x By the way, the drunky piccys were worth your while putting them up!! lol veeryy nice aha!