hi everyone!

i am new to pu society and i need some pointers from some pua's out there. anyways, i met this HB8 thru a friend a couple of months ago at a party and she a has a bf and i also met her bf. we didn't really become friends we just knew each other. a couple of weeks ago, i was chillin at sturbucks with my buddy and she dropped by to by some coffee. so i talked to her and i found out that she got dumped by her bf two months ago and she is still not over it. so we talk for a little bit but i reall needed to get going so i just got her #. so then couple days later, i called her and invited her to my friends house party. she came with two friends, hb7 and ugly one. wutever. anyways, we were at the party having fun, i was winning her friends and a few other girls by playing the style 5 questions game and the esp stuff and some PU silly games. anyways she was having fun so i decided to isolate her and then i threw some dhv spikes here and there, lil bit of kino and stuff. i told her bout the u shape and c shape smiles and also the cube trick by style. she was really into this. anyways, i kino the whole time of course and then i notice some ioi's as she became really touchy and grabbing me constantly. she even went as far as saying not to pick up my phone cuz she wants to talk to me. i did anyways shes crazy if she thinks i'll do that. so then after i did the cube, she started giving me smiles and she said in a playful way:
HB8: i hate you
me: why
HB8: cuz u really know how to talk to me and get my attention.

major ioi right there. so anyways, her friends told her that they really need to drop by at the bar which was literally 10 min. away cuz her friend like this dude and they were suppose to meet there. so she told me she'll be right back.

HB8: i promise i'll be back in 45 min.
me: yeah wutever
HB8: im serious i promise, in fact come with us we'll come right back.
me: no i can't leave it's my friends party i dont leave my friends
HB8: please just come cuz i'll get bored and i wanna talk to u more.
me: uhmm... 45 min. u say? how about 30? if we dont leave the bar in 30 min. i'll dip out.
HB8: ok

so wutever. her friends drove and she insisted we drive in a seperate car so we could talk or wutever. we got to the bar, things got boring for her there cuz her guy friends wasn't really doin shit they were quite the whole time. so after like 20 or so she was like let's go im getting bored.

we got back to the party. rapport some more and then finally i did the matador kiss calibration. so i put gum in my mouth, and then one on hers and then;

me: by the way im an indian giver i would like to get my gum back
HB8: (big smiles and stares at me) do you wanna kiss me?
so i thought this was just a shit test to see if i would give in so i played it like this
me: whoa whoa damn woman ur thinkin way too far.
hb8: (laughs really hard and touches/grabs me) if u wanna kiss me, do it but not in front of my friends cuz they haven't seen me act like this and really happy in the past 2 months.

so major ioi again so we talked for more about 2 more minutes or so and i cut her off;

me: i still want my gum back
hb8: do u really wanna kiss me?

so i just went for it, but of course i ended the kiss and told her i can't beleive i did that. so anyways, throughout the night she was getting drunk and she called up her friend who is friend's with my buddy who owns the house. about HB 9.5 great smile and eveything. so as she was getting drunk i just started talking to HB 9.5 and kinda flirted with her but nothing major. so the HB8 starting getting jealous. she was sitting at the couch sitting next to her friend she came with. so i tried sitting next to her but her friend won't let me. and then she said let him sit. i sat next to her.

me: why u look piss all of the sudden?
HB8: i see how u are. go do ur thing it's ok.
me: wut hing?
HB8: go ahead it's cool.
me: i can't talk to other people?
HB8: go ahead

so i was like wutever. her friend said they had to leave soon it's getting late.
so the next day i saw her left some shit at my buddy's house jacket and stuff. so later the day, i txted her told her she forgot her jacket. and then we started just txting back and forth i told her we goin to the bar and she said she wants to hangout so we met up there. just hanging out at the bar talking wutever. they had to leave so they did. so anyways, that was last weekend and i didn't call her for like 3 days. i finally called her and ask her if she wants to come over at the new house me and my buddy recently moved into and she keeps giving me bullshit that her friends were over and stuff so i told her, her friend is welcome cuz one of my buddy is over anyways. she didn't txt back, i wasn't gonna txt her again. next day i called her she picks up.

me: wut's up
HB8: hey
me: im mad at you
HB8: y cuz i didnt txt back?
me: well thats part of it. but u told me u were gonna help me design the house.
HB8: i will
me: wutever. u just don't wanna hang out.
HB8: i do
me: wutever, wut did u do today anyways?
HB8: nothing laying down.
me: wow u bum
HB8:*laughs*
me: so ur coming over?
HB8: maybe later tonight cuz i still need to go home and shower

at this point, i thought to myself, she is fucking with me, i thought she stayed home all day and was laying down and now she said shes at a friends house?

me: aight wutever. just call me whenever.

so i had to end it like that. so wut happened here? she was into me, we kissed, we hang out next day cuz she wanted to and all of the sudden she's blowin me off? im thinkin of not calling her anymore. i have a feeling that she got ticked off when i was flirting with her friend who is a HB9.5 at the party. wut do u guys think? i still wanna beat her nothing more really. but if shes gonna act like this fuck her.

anybody could give advice?

My advice: neg her a out being jealous and try to hang out again. If she still blows you off then fuck her.

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Don't ever let somebody tell you.. you can't do something. Not even me. All right?

You got a dream.. you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want something, Go get it. Period.

my advise .. lay off the negs as your way past that stage ... attraction is already there ....anymore and you will LOSE HER ..... start acting nice .... make a move on her (get er in bed)

thanks for the advice. anyways, ya i didn't call her again after she blow me off once cuz sometimes i just dont have the patients for girls. but anyways, we haven't talked since and last nite i was at my friends house lil party not too big and then i had to go back at around 1:30 in the morning cuz i have to wake up early for work. so i was already passed out at around like 2:30 in the morning and then i hear my phone ringing. it was her. i thought to myself wtf does she want maybe it was just a drunken phone call. i was really tired and i didn't wanna pick up so im thinkin about calling her back sometime today. wut do u guys think?

oh yeah i forgot. sheeshkabab that was my plan last time when she blow me off i plan on showing her the new house and then get her to my room play a lil, and then seduce her. but she's retarded.

She's into you, you did everything successful, but when she saw you were flirting with that other girl she got turned off by it. She felt insecure by it, and that's not good. Many girls hate players, and you obviously looked like one to her.

Next time you see her, game her some more and just tell her you had a special feeling hanging out with her.
Something that makes her feel special. Makes her melt.