Hey guys

Ok after C and Fing this girl badly for the past week since I met her , we finally had our chance for a d2.

Went back to her hotel @ like 5 am in the morning after partying , and I invited myself in telling her to give her a backrub before she sleeps then im leaving. Although its funny because first she tells me to leave her by the door of the hotel , inside of me I know its some kind of LMR and had Brad P idea of "its always a guys job to escalate and a girl job to say No"

then minutes later after a series of tests I get to her room , we start cuddlin each other but everytime I go for the K, she stops me and tells me how confusin is the situation so I better stop.

Now please know that this is very new to me I have never had myself in this situation Im almost a virgin. so I getup tell her that I dont want to bother her and as Im leaving she stand by the door of the room , we start kissin and it gets really heavy and beasty. I carry her to her bed then as Im ecalating again she stops me.

We sit in her bed for like hours just cuddlin and she tells me how she liked it when I carried her to her bed but she finds it weird that she let a man in her room but nothing happened.

so Anyway I just gave up and left her room and we agreed to see each other later on that evening.

question is where did I go wrong ?

Well, LMR is a byproduct of not having built enough comfort and connection with the girl first. In all honesty, I often get it simply because I can never be bothered to build comfort, I'd almost rather just deal with the LMR.

Do you know how to freeze out, man? A freeze out is a technique designed to demonstrate two things to the girl;
1. a lack of sexual needyness; even if you don't fuck her today, you'll still wanna hang around with her later. You're not going anywhere.
2. an ability to take away her good feelings. Yeah, you're making out and she stops you going further; so just stop making out. Makeout leads to sex, so you can't do that anymore.

When she stops you, stand up, turn the lights on. Smile broadly and say 'I understand'. Suggest a game of chess, turn the TV, check your emails.