Ok so this was the first time I tried to game. Tried one set before this one and it didnt open.At one point of the night after I got familiar with the place and comfortable me and a friend were at the bar.Hes getting us drinks and i see 3 chicks behind me sitting down,so im like ok if i wait more than 3 seconds im gonna panic and not go...so i was like fuck it just go.
So i go up to them and i use the "is kissing cheating" opener.
Start talking to them and 2 more of their friends come up behind me
and i turn and greet them to show that im a friendly guy.So far this is like 20secs into approaching them and im completely ignoring my target, im focusing on her friend on the right. 3 of the girls leave to go whatever and im left with 2. My target and her friend.So as im talking the target leans and whispers to her friend something and her friend goes to me "my friend wants to lick you".I was like "*shrugs shoulders* aight" MISTAKE 1.My target proceeds to lean over and slowly lick my neck. Then i carry on about my opener ignoring my target still. MISTAKE 2 At this point the target is bending over in front of simulating giving me head.She even sucks on my beer bottle that was between my legs and raises her head.So i take my drink and drink some of it and im like ¬_¬ ANYWAY.Her friend gives her opinion about it and shes like well "ur friend should just tell the girl to fuck off".I'm like hmm thats interesting.Thanks for the advice.She then gets up and starts walking away. Then my target gets up and shes like "You tried to hit on my friend and she told you to fuck off...deal with it". Then I said...well thats not what happened but it was nice meeting you. Then i went off back to my mate.

So here is where I think went wrong.
1.Only gave 1 verbal ftc at the start. My body language perhaps could be improved ( facing away)
2.Stayed on my opener too long after the interrupts by my target so the friend got bored.
3.I was going down the plan in my head, rather than calibrating with my target.She was already at seduction and I was still at opening.
4.Shouldnt drink...lol
5.Maybe give the targets some IOIs?

TBH Iam very happy about what happened. The aim I had set myself was to just open a set and id be happy. So the fact that I opened was an achievement for me. I number closed another girl that night but that was just stupid. I took my phone out and was like "the music is too loud.give me your number" and she was like "whats your name first" and i told her then I said i gotta go and she gave me the number. I don't count that as anything I just did it cause i was on a hype from the set before.

So yeh...im still new so...please give me some feedback.

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"Don't think, feel. It's like a finger pointing to the moon. Concentrate on the finger and you'll miss all the heavenly glory"

I can't give advice as I'm still a newb myself.....but You did what most guys won't ....you said fuck it and went for it!......and learned from the results!

I'm going out in-field on friday,saturday and monday coming. Im hoping to have more things to report lol. One thing I learned is that after your first approach, the next sets are alot easier cause you've gotten over your approach anxiety once so its easier

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"Don't think, feel. It's like a finger pointing to the moon. Concentrate on the finger and you'll miss all the heavenly glory"

I don't have much to say but good job ennine. My AA gets the best of me in unfamiliar places, keep up the confidence! Having a slim chance at a girl is better than not having the balls to open her and overthink it the rest of the night.

When she asked if she could lick you you probably should of made it harder. Cat string theory, keep her coming for more. Also first give her a hoop to jump through then reward her with IOIs

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