hey guys i want your opinion.

first off i live outside the us, and society is kind of "the OC" like, so you have to be very carefull when sarging and using canned material, almost every person you meet will have a friend in common with you. so i joined the community a couple of months back but really havent been sarging an awful lot, actually i dont think ive been going out more than once a week to small gatherings, etc. because of college work. in the past 2 weeks i got a real chance to try my new skills and went to a huge party a week or so ago and another one yesterday.

on the first i only opened a couple of sets and corrected my sticking points. i have lost all my aproach anxiety, but still dont try so much since i always stay up in the vip area. anyway i at least will go down a while and open a few sets. so this is how it went off. last week my first set opened succesfully and reached into attaction, it was a 3 set so i introduced a friend of mine to one HB7 and stayed with 2 others HB7.5 one on each arm. didnt have much time because my friend is a total wussy and i saw his girl turn her back against him, by then i knew the set was blown out. afterwards i opened another 2set one was a HB8 and the other was a 2 maybe three (No way i'm giving her a HB just a number) so i stayed with the HB9 and gave my friend the other as a punishment for blowing the first set, he blew me again, there was a lot of chemistry in the set. anyway i noticed i didnt deliver a FTC in the first set or anything like that. i totally negged her and she seem to like it. she was interested. onto the other party

learned my lesson and i no longer hook up my wussy friends so i went with a friend that is like male model looking and opened a 2 set. he keeps them interested cuz hes really good looking but that only lasts 5 min at the most. so i isolated my target within 2 minutes, locked in against the bar and started playing games. she was totally throwing IOI, like touching her hair every 2 secs and having her total atention on me, she qualified and everything and the set was looking great, i was getting all the IOI i needed but wasnt getting congruence (for example when we walked holding hands, she didnt seem to be squeezing them back, although i suspect it had something to do with her beeing kind of drunk) she was feeling comfortable with my kino but it was like talking to a wall, like she didnt understand much of what was going on, im pretty sure she was drunk (maybe a good thing??? carried away?) but anyway, she was having fun. she was a HB8 so i walked her around the place holding hands to DHV the room. dont really know how out of the blue some guy cockedblocked me, i think it was her brother or boyfriend or something cuz when she saw him she took her hand out of mine. anyway it was gone.

i never drink so i always realize everythign thats going on. what do you guys think i need to improve my game?? here most girls dance so what i usually do is go with a friend pick one and take her out of the dancefloor because my dancingg skillz are not so great, i can move well enough but i do way better talking, but i dont like this because it is DLVing walking around the dance floor to pick a target. ive thinked of a solution and im going out with some girlfriends so that i can walk around the dance floor with them, to pick my target and at the same time DHV. by now i know what to do and i can fairly easily build attaction once i open. what kind of openers do you thinki i should be using in this situation, people have no idea about the community but i rather not used canned material just situacional openers. (like for example yesterday in a moving set i looked over my shoulder and asked the girl, is that supposed to be a costume? it was kinda a neg, it worked though)

any commets will be greatly apreciated. thanks