ok, last night i went out with my friends. notihing special, we went to a club. at the end of the night i was sitting next to a cute frend of mine and on the opposite side of the tabele was a gay( a friend of mine too called toma) and 3 girls next to him ( who we didn't know). althouhg toma isn't a PUA he occupied the girl next to him for a while. other two girls( one was a 6 and the other, my girl, was an 8.5) were talking to each other not having soo much fun. I decided to go in. This is how it went.

I asked that cute friend of mine that was sitting next to me: "what do u think, how lies more, men or women?" I could see the reaction imedeatly, she was soo interesed. she started to elaborate her point of view in which she claimed that men lie more. ( ofcourse, i didn't agree with her)I told her that we should make a bet with 3 people on our table( the importat thing here is that i was pointing on those 3 people and turned my head to them a bit so that they can hear that this is about them too, now they were paying attention). cutie agreed that we should ask them and that is how it all started. I held the lead position on the tabel and after a while(my cute friend left, cuz she could see that i wasn't paying any attention to her) and the HB 6 sat nex to me. I was talking over the table to the HB 8.5 and after few minutes i told her that she shpould sit next to me so that her friend ( HB 6) could hear us. she was delighted with the proposition, and said how caring i am bla bla bla. ofcours i talked only too her for about 70% of my time in the set heheh.

NOW. every thing went well but in the end she wouldn't give me her phone number but instead she said that she will find me on facebook. she did that but i thought she will give me her number. WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW? how should i continiue this...please help me a bit.

thanks

HP

help and comments r welcome

First of all i would advice you make up your own openers.

She isn't ready to give you her number yet because she is probably attracted to you but doesn't seem to think you are sexual intercourse material.

I like the way you controlled the situation but i feel maybe you didn't use enough kino

I know i should. I am just not good at that. thnx for the advice.

Kino can be a bit hard in the beginning. First start it off with something fun like palm reading or thumb war. If she says something cute, reward with a hug, simple as that. Just make sure you do gradually otherwise she'll feel weird. Remember, if you feel uneasy so will she. Just think about it as a natural thing, the same way you would treat one of your guy friends if you had your arm on his shoulder or were punching him in the arm.

google the DiCarlo Kino Escalation Ladder. Its a good overview.

thnx man