the whole thing was a bet between me and my 2 friends that i could get her before these 2 other AFC's could, (it was kinda rediculous cause i watched for an hour before i started doing anything and they just followed her around like a lost puppy) it was more like just to piss them off. okay so i went to a church lock that was all night long so it was perfect. so what happened was after about an hour of flirting and getting alot of kino w/ her i got a good vibe back so i went and got my ipod out so we could get close. but the problem was we went into this room where there was a couch was and we had about 3/4 of the couch taken, and we were watching people play guitar hero. but this is when it happened the two guys i was talking about came in there and stayed in there all night and fucked everything up cause she is a nice person and didn't want to make them upset. so out of all probably 3 hours under a cover w/ her all that we did was make out for like 10 minutes then she layed down on me for the rest of the night.

it was such a failure i cant even stand myself for it. im new to the PUA community ive been playin the game for about a year and i just found out about this whole community. anyone got any input on this what i could've mad this better?

don't beat yourself up to hard dude. church functions probably aren't the best place to f-close anyway. you probably could have changed locations a little bit, but it's not like you could have done a location bounce/instadate (as the church was locked). if you've got good rapport and good kino, you should invite her out with some of your friends to go play minigolf or something. plus, she spent the time under the covers with you, the 2 afcs don't even matter. they aren't even in the picture. they're just orbiters.

you should have amog'd them a little more and if they're around, just start doing some of the methods you can find in this forum like comment about their clothes or next time they come up to bug you guys tell him you'll give him five bucks to take her off of your hands. she'll be like "no nickooo i want to hang out with youuu." you've got the ioi's, you've got the rapport, now you just need a good time to do what you do. and wear a condom.

that makes me feel alot better, i was beating myself up all day about it. but yeah i can see how i could have amog'd them, idk why i didn't i was seriously getting bored. i just felt like we could have gone to the room where people were sleeping and did something.

Anyone else got any input?

I've been many situations just like this before at similar events. My perspective is this, you got close enough to create a connection and that will transfer to next time which may be a better situation to become more "intimate" if we want to use that term. Either way I think that you succeeded without having to bring yourself to a low standard. On that train of thought, amog-ing them would have been a good idea, if your only goal was to hook up with this girl once maybe another time, having not done that, you now have the opportunity to create numerous other instances to rendezvous.

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