| So, I was out for a slow night to shoot the shit with some friends.
I get into a conversation with some girls and during the course of the night I have random conversations with a few people both men and women. This as you know generates preselection and social proof.
I did not find anyone in particular to be interesting so I decided to leave early and call it a night. About 20 minutes before I actually left, a girl comes up to me, it is a friend of a friend and I kind of know her but never really got around to talk to her. So she tells me (and some other people (I assumed that she knew them)) that she is leaving and I go: Well, have fun see you later whatever. As I always do to people who are nothing special.
When I finally leave, she is outside in a conversation with some people who are unknown to me. I just tell her: You didnt get very far, I thought you were leaving.
Girl: Oh no stay here with us.
Ezo: Naaah, its a day tomorrow too.
Girl: I heard that you are a bad guy.
Ezo: Who told you?
Girl: It was xxx who told me, she warned me about you. Like, be careful with this guy, he is a bad guy.
Ezo: (No idea how to reply) Well, shes probably right, Im a bad bad person.
Ezo: Giving her a friendly pat on the shoulder.
0,0000001 second pass
Girl:( Hugging, clinging being all over me.)
Ezo: Hey hey hey. Breaking loose and doing a little spin (compliance test).
Girl:Passes the test
Ezo: So, I am a bad guy, really, she told you.
Girl: Yes but its a secret.
Ezo: So you are spending a lot of time together, are you living together?
Girl: No no no, I live alone, all by myself (strong hint I guess).
Ezo: Fascinating, so I guess you are a bad girl.
Girl: May be.
Ezo: Of course.
Making plans for further social; interactions.
Strange thing is that I did absolutely nothing to make this happen. She played (tried to) me. I was caught off guard.
No number close and nothing but I will see her again for sure.
Take home message: My unintentional player status (from people seeing me in too many sets) finally seems to pay off. The mere fact that someone warned her about me worked as a DHV!
Never underestimate the power of preselection!
Love
Ezo
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