So I'm 21 and been reading up on PUA now for a month or two on and off.

Ive been taking small steps just to get out of the house after getting addicted to online gaming (Starcraft) even messing up relationships with girls for games some time ago.

Now I'm not going to be dishonest im a good looking guy. Get attention everytime I'm out with wolf whistles and IoI's but ive always lacked confidence because when i was younger shit happend that i cant be botherd to go in too.

My first night out at a club and I can't actually believe how easy it actually was.

Soon as I walked in brought a drink looked over at some girls and nicked a mystery line just changed it abit and asked a 2 set what was it with all these people wearing black in here. They replyed giggling and said they didn't know so i gave em a strange'ish look and walkd out for a cig.

Once I was sitting at the table guys and girls flocked out so two other girls came sat near me but had a guy they was drinking some energy drink and I said ' why you drinking that crap you should be on the alcahol' now that was sort of a mess up but i got passed it and just gave small talk even tho they seemd intrested still i thought fuck it I'm not that in too them anyway.

So now mostly guys came around me and I made sure I said alright' to every single one and had a good chat with lots of blokes this is something i was REALLY happy about as i always thought speaking to blokes could be harder, as they might think im gay or something but no, I made some good mates and found some social proof ready for later.

Now, out come two girls I'd say 9 or close to 9's and they sat right next to me giving me the eye and i can't remember now what started the convo off but it was good untill they asked me to buy them drinks

so I said if you give me the money sure ill get you them and was very cocky and called them names, getting them giggling etc. after I got the drinks for them I came out shaking my head (they asked why i was shaking my head) and said never will I waste 10mins off my life again getting drinks for you two, I'm not your butler and they laughed at this point we was having small talk they asked me my name i called myself infuze so i walked off abit showing disintrest in them after that and i think that was a bad move

As they said they was going back in the club and they will see me later, so i thought oh well cya.

So I went for another drink and when I came back i saw two guys at the table and i started a convo with them, these guys seemd really cool, good looking and i thought they was gonna be key for the social proofing. So I'm chatting with them and what do you know the two girls are back who had just left and also the other two girls who i opened as i walked in the club was sitting the otherside.

Now i'm thinking this is going too well and then these 9's girls told me i'm was hot and where abouts do i come from etc. So still being cocky i told em i was leaving for a bit. Reason i did this was to get some money out of the cash point because i only came out with a tenner thinking i wouldn't even enter the club due to AA.

This was the big mistake because when i tried to re-enter the club the bouncers wouldnt let me back in, telling me i didn't look old enough even after showing them my citezencard stateing im 21 years old.

After that i just thought fuck it theres a million clubs out there and at least now i know how to play this game at a decent level. I feel over the moon and proud of myself because this time last year i was a manic depressent, under a psycolagist and didn't even like having the curtains open in my house let alone go out chatting up aload of women one year later.

I also found out drinking sucks as you can see I made a good few typos I bet and some grammer mistakes and can't wait for this to wear off because I feel so confident now i won't ever touch the drink again, just no need as I find its' a escape, and I don't want to escape this world any more its actually a great life. And I'm really glad theres sites like this to help guys like me out because without it I don't know what I would have done.

Thanks all.

Hey, that sounds great man! Take control over your life and you start feeling good about yourself. It really is easier than you might think, as you have discovered. I have also been pretty depressed and asocial... I've discovered how much fun just random interaction with strangers can be. And I've just landed one of the cutest girls I've ever met as a girlfriend. All thanks to PUA Before I got into this stuff I probably wouldn't even had TRIED hitting on her.