| I think I should tell a little bit about my background first because first of all, I'm not American and second, I'm not fluent in English.
I've been in the States for 3 years and during that time, I couldnt find a date. Maybe because my English wasnt good enough to understand a girl or make her attracted to me. But thanks for the Game that finally I could get my first date with a HB8. However, I didnt think I did good on that day, so I really need you guys to give comment and suggest what I should do next.
Here is the report:
I met the girl at my friend's birthday party. I talked to her for like 2 hours and I got her number when the party's over. After that, we were texting each others back n forth. Then I asked she hang out with me. First day, I spent an hour with her at school during the lunch time cuz we're both going to the same college. I ran the photo routine and she seemed interested. However, I had to get back to my lab, so I asked her to go to movie with me on the weekend cuz I got 2 free movie tickets from AMC. She agreed.
Saturday evening, I went to her apartment to pick her up and we drove to the theater near her place. While we were driving, I told the I GOT HIT BY GAY story. She was laughing so hard. Then she comment about my car: "Your car is clean, not like other guys. They're always messy...blab blab..." Then she found one of my notebook which I left in my car, and said thing like: "I like your handwriting... Oh you actually took note in class..." I took them as IOIs. However, when I was trying to touch her, she wasnt really comply and I could feel a distance from her.
When we were watching movie, I tried to improve the situation but still, her body didnt open. She crossed her arms in font of her chest, her legs crossed against me and she barely let her body touch me.
After the movie, we went for dinner. During the dinner, our convo went smoothly and she enjoyed most of my stories and routines. However, when I tried to touch her again like I made her play thumb fight. She only played one time and refused to do it again. Then, I ran the question game. I told her one of my funny secret, then I asked for her turn. She said she had no secret to tell, so my game just went down. I tried to play push and pull but it was not effective. And at the end, I paid for the dinner. I know that we should never pay for girl drink or dinner but I couldnt do that. It seem to rude if I let her pay for it, and actually I was afraid that I might look back in her eyes if I didnt do that. Did I make a mistake?
I asked her if she want to hang out with me the next day because there was a festival in downtown and it would be fun. She said she had a test on monday and she had to stay home study for that test. I told her I could help her out cuz I was good at math. But again, she refused.
During the way home, I tried to build rapport but it seems like she's not really into it. She kept distance from me. Her bag was on her laps and her hands were in fond her chest. When we got to her apartment, she hug me and said she will talk to me after her test. She didnt kiss me for the goodbye.
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So, what do you guys think? I know that I screwed but I want to fix it. Please give me some advises!
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