| So, because I am in highschool and have only recently turned 18 i haven't been that exposed to clubs, so most of my game is used on people within my social circle. I went out last night with Cabernet (another poster on here, though very rarely..) and we had game all set. We went out and we had a few drinks (despite me promising I wouldn't drink!) and we were feeling really good. We were also out with some other friends who are cool people, mix of guys and girls.
To cut to the point, because I notice that many FR's tend to ramble on, we got into a club and neither of us had approached a set. The main reason for this is because, as I discovered, I have terrible approach anxiety. Seriously, I freeze and can't do anything. I have a girl on my arm who was one of my friends and we sat in a booth with Cabernet on another one by himself looking at everyone (which I think might have staled out the club for him) and there was a very cute HB 7.5 texting next to us. I decided to go for it, and it turned out to be a good decision.
I opened with the magic spells opener, and she was very responsive. Didn't believe in magic for a second. I gave a false time constraint and rooted the opener, then ran into the dental floss opener which actually can be used quite effectively as a routine. I then did the C's vs U's and busted on her for quite a bit. Literally, 10 minutes in to conversation, we started making out, it was awesome. Despite being kind of tipsy I was conscious of my body language and attitude which I think helped a lot. We talked some more and I realized she didn't believe in love or anything like that and that she was studying medicine to become a psychiatrist, which is cool because I am studying to become a clinical psychologist. Anyway one of her friends came up and said they had a cab and she said she needed to go but asked if I would take her number. I reached for my pocket and realized I left my phone at home. After saying this she asked for mine and I put it in but hit the wrong button. Her friend was shouting that the cab was going, but she told me to put it in again and we hugged and she said she'd call me.
I don't know if she will, but it was an amazing experience and I felt like money the rest of the night and am still feeling it now as I type. My two major sticking points are Approach Anxiety (which will only be conquered by crashing and burning I suppose) and continuing a kiss. See, We made out first fine, but as she was leaving I went for another kiss and she wasn't having any of it. This has happened in my game before when we make out fine but when it's time to go she won't kiss. Maybe it looks like I really want it? I don't know. Any advice?
All in all great night and I feel more confident as a person now. I'm a big guy an I always wear a t-shirt and a shirt over it with the sleeves rolled up and no buttons done up because I'm self conscious. However, I'm off to a party tonight and I tried on one of my shirts and realized I don't look that bad at all!! I feel great and I love you all. Keep safe lads.
Seductively,
- Memento _________________ "Love is three quarters curiosity." ~Casanova
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