inspired by the shock and awe approach (=>
THIS thread<=):
WEDNESDAY (just after i read the article):
FR: IMPLEMENTING WITHOUT WORDS
so inspired by the article i went out wednesday night. one of my favorite type of approaching is what my friends call DANCE FLOOR GRABBING (maybe the community has a different name for it, forgive me for not following protocols). anyway dance floor grabbing is when you jump a girl on the dance floor and start grinding her, not a word being said. this is my area of expertise. it's an art
anyway on wednesday there was THE really hot one, you know what i mean, dancing there with her friend, surrounded by no less than 4 chodes circling around her non stop, taking turn in giving her a sleazy smile and trying to say something. literally like that, taking turns. i was dancing alone (on purpose) right near, and then the first eye contact was made. totally inspired by the article, i was looking at her with this intense look, conveying "YOU.ARE.SO.FUCKING.HOT-YOU.ARE.MINE!!!" i just marched over to her cut through the chodes and just grabbed her firmly and started the grind dance. she didn't resist for a second. the chodes just kept dancing there defeated. the grinding went on and i snogged her while at it, and then she ran away. she probably had some reason for it, i don't care. it was a cool interaction wasn't it? moving on to next girl
FRIDAY (today) - 2 s&a approaches
did it twice today. one time was a pure rehash of the one on wednesday. cut through the chodes and grabbed the super hot girl on the dance floor. this time too the girl complied, we started dancing close (toucing) but then she showed me her wedding ring and told me that her husband is in the club with her. then she pulled back. i let her go.
did it again on a girl sitting with her friend. this actually required talking this time
)) bummer. i don't like talking. anyway.. i took a chair and just planted myself near them, and went like: "WHO-ARE-YOU??????" then i started pulling off the s&a stuff.. "you don't actually expect me to stop myself from coming over".. "you should really wear something ugly so you'll stop torturing me" and so on. it went ok, she was laughing, i touched her all the time, she didn't resist, then her guy friend came, she was like trying to talk to him all the time. i pulled her back into me and did some more, tried snogging but failed, all i could is set a date. it didn't work all the way on this girl.
however, i was thinking about it later and found some flaws in my approach:
- she loved the initial s&a, but then she kind of lost the excitement about it. at this point i should have calibrated. the 's&a phase' died so i should have switched to a more connection talk and stuff, seasoned by the occasional s&a. instead i just kept pushing s&a without calibrating. bad me.
- my touching wasn't sexual/sensual enough. it all had a 'crazy SPAM' to it. it didn't fit this kind of girl (i could slowly figure out her type).
- this is connected to the previous one, my whole general approach has this 'crazy and fun' element to it. i appear as this high octane crazy guy, even a little bit of a clownish vibe. this is stuff i learned from certain community material and it affected me. or, infected me, to be more accurate. because it doesn't work for me. maybe it works for others but not for me. what works for me is 'sexual and high quality guy'. this is really me, and that's why it works for me. so i still have bad stuff influence in my head from certain material i read. still have to shake it out. identified this and will work on it further.
overall my next one should fix these things. s&a with words is harder than s&a without words
actually, any game that involves talking is much harder. unfortunately i can't do dance floor game all day because the off-floor has a lot to offer. and i love day game too. so yeah, gotta talk too ;(
comments welcome! and post your S&A FR's! can't wait to hear other guys' experiences with this!
gigi
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Wow, unorthodox(lol)!!! I dont really know if that approach(the sit down part of it) was according to picc-up protocol, but its alpaha I guess. Hey, I actually do the same thing whenever I go clubing and I notice an HB dancing and there are some AFC's hovering a round her, from her periphery, I would roll in and eventually end up grinding her while they watch(lol).
