The other day I went to a friends best friends 21st birthday party... I only went because she and I had a thing, and had hot friends.

Anyway about 12-12.30 this girl stole my hat then her friend stole it from her. I talked with them a while, got my hat back and rejoined my group. Later I went up to her and said "you look like you want to dance" after which I lead her upstairs to the dance floor.

What followed was about 10-15 minutes of highly sexualized dancing including me fingering her, after which she once more danced with me then just randomly took off.

I know I should have used some LMR techiniques, but I figiured what the hell, and tequila was involved...

The best part....I danced with at least 6 other girls with the first girl on my fingers...

You should have rubbed some of that PJ on your wrists and asked each girl if she liked the smell of your new cologne.

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While you were dancing with her you were fingering her? It must have been dark. You might have been able to keep her around for longer but regaurdless it's still a win. As David Wygant preaches, embrace the small wins.

it's like flipping a coin with really drunk girls, they do the dumbest shit from bean flicking another girl (like no matter how drunk you were would you bone another guy if you are straight !?) to climbing off you in mid sex in a self induced huff and walking home without remembering any of it the next day.

I once had a tequila fuelled girl suggest and then do some sick sick fun stuff she had never even dreamed of doing (she was very prim and propper!) and she denied it the next day, she was adamant she never did anything till I showed her the clip on my phone she'd asked me to take of her.. needless to say she was like WTF and and OMG

so yes, just take what positives you can from it when tequila or any large volume of alcohol is in play and don't take anything that happens to heart if it's bad, the chick probably doesn't even know what she's thinking at the time.

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if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you always got.

Tequila was involved for me, I dont know about her.

But the dancefloor wasnt that dark, we were kind of by a pillar though...and it was kind of empty. Looking back on it I/her should have been kicked out.

Luckily, my friends were still downstairs, and when she went downstairs, my friends came upstairs.

odd post, but congrats just the same.

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drink is what girls use as an exscuse to deny what they have done, of course sometimes, especially with the stiffer of drinks, it can actually mean she doesnt rember shit, all depends on how drunk she actually was.

another thing to remeber is that a guy goes to a club, it is to socialise but they are normally on the look for a k-close, a n-close maybe even a f-close, the only thing that tends to differ is how much effort they put in to attempting to obtain these closes. A woman can go months without sex because by going to a club, especially attractive women, they can get enough validation from being stared at, approached, grinded, groped and maybe even a cheeky fingering!

A guy could see this as escalation, but a woman can see this as increasing validation, once its reached a certain point of validation that she feels is enough, she can quite happily leave thinking 'i got mine', whereas its easy for the male to be left feeling they have lost out on an opportunity to claim more...

so basically what im saying is, one way of looking at it is that shes just might of used you...

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