Below is a 1-on-1 set i did last night...

Me: * Sees a SHB turning down 2 guys just now and is up for the challenge *
Me: Man... You know how to look tough!
She: *says nothing*
Me: Can’t I hire you as my bodyguard?...
She: Well... No!....
Me: I pay really bad...
She: *says nothing*
Me: And there are no extra benefits as well...
She: It’s not for me anyway...
Me: But... It is a really easy job...
She: *says nothing*
Me: Alll you have to do is… keep women at a safe distance from me at all times
She: Yeah sure... Do you believe this stuff yourself?
Me: And when I want to go to the bar... then you have to make a path for me to the bar... so nobody is in my way... and my drink should also be ready for me at the bar…
She: Haha… You must be joking... (*side note: I got “haha” here, so this is where I kind of hooked in after plowing through*)
Me: Man… You are really a tough one... You should come with me to Dubai...
She: *says nothing*
Me: You are perfect for Dubai...
She: *says nothing*
Me: In Dubai they all have a bodyguard... (* this is the beginning of a routine of mine which was not finished, because her next answer gave me the chance to go in a different thread *)
She: I have been in Dubai too...
Me: What the hell did YOU do in Dubai?.. I hope you didn’t do any bad girl stuff over there, did you?...
She: Bad girl stuff?
Me: Yeah... Everybody knows what bad girls do in Dubai... Hell... I lived there for 3 years!
She: Well I’m not that bad...
Me: So what did you do there?... Work related? Or holiday?
She: Just a holiday...
Me: OK... To which clubs did you go?..
She: I just relaxed in the hotel and I shopped a bit in the malls
Me: Oh... in which hotel were you?..
She: I don’t know the name any more...
Me: Man... This is weird... Have you actually really been there?..
She: Yes... But I don’t like to tell... it’s like I’m bragging...
Me: Why?
She: Well it’s that big hotel... The 7 star hotel... What’s the name... Burj Al Arab *pronounced wrong*
Me: OK Burj al Arab *pronounced right*... With your own little lift in your hotel room...
She: Yes...
Me: And you were just in the hotel?
She: Yes... And like I told you… I shopped...
Me: Those kids of Arab tourists in the malls and hotels are annoying, aren’t they? They run around through everything… as if they were not raised properly...
She: Yes very annoying!
Me: When were you there?
She: In July...
Me: Man.. What a choice... In July it’s 50 degrees Celsius!.. In that month everybody leaves Dubai...
She: Well... I am used to the heat...
Me: So where do you reside normally... because you say you are used to the heat?
She: I travel a lot...
Me: For your work or something?
She: Well ... I used to study tourism actually...
Me: Your answers are so weird!...
She: Why?
Me: Bad girl...
She: haha
Me: I know something, bad girl... lets find out who is the “baddest”... you or me…
She: How?
Me: You have to lie 5 times and then you win. But if you tell the truth once, then i win...
She: OK
Me: What’s at stake?... A drink?...
She: OK
Me: OK... so 5 questions... First question is easy... to get into it... What color is my shirt...?
She: Blue...
Me: OK good start
Me: Are you a girl?...
She: No...
Me: Oh my god... So I am talking to a boy... Am I a boy as well?
She: No...
Me: Haha... I am beginning to feel uncomfortable with you... * i pretend to be getting nervous and i dont know what to say and that i am hiding behind a smile as if I’m totally AFC*
Me: Shit... uhm... don’t get me off track like that... now i lost it... how many questions did i already ask you? (*side note: its important to say “already”, so the answer doesn’t include this 4th question as well*)
She: 4.... uh... no... 3!
Ik: Haha... I got you!... You told me the truth!
She: No way!
Me: Yes you did... You said 3 and it were 3 questions.
She: No I said 4
Me: No you said “4 uhm no 3!”... That is the truth, you can’t deny...
She: I said 4
Me: You are trying to be cunning... But I was supposed to ask you 5 questions and not 4... You have played this game before didn’t you?
She: No I didn’t!
Me: OK, well then i got you as well on the 5th question!... You just told me the truth...
She: No I lied... Because I did play it before…
Me: Man I thought you were cool, but you are the type that tires me out…
She: Yes I am...
Me: I am so happy I didn’t raise you... I’d probably be bald or grey within a week...
She: haha
Me: Respect for you parents... they must have had a really hard time... coping with you all the time...
She: Yes thank you
Me: You know what… you and me… we are too similar… we would never get along… You wouldn’t take my shit… And I wouldn’t take your shit…
Me: * I turn away a bit*
She: Where are you from? * she initiates convo while i turned away, so a sure IOI *
Me: Amsterdam
She: Which neighbourhood? *IOI 2*
Me: Why do you want to know?
She: Never mind...
Me: “MY REAL NEIGHBOURHOOD XYZ”... What’s yours?
She: Down town
Me: It’s OK, but hard to park overthere...
She: I have my own garage...
Me: Good for you little princess...
Me: * I turn away a bit *
She: * She initiates convo again* Whats your name? *IOI 3*
Me: SKY
She: dkfgjndkgjn
Me: I dont hear you... Spell it for me...
She: A-B-C-D
Me: Ah ok!.. Abcd… Nice to meet you...
Me: I just dont know much about you yet...
She: Thats right...
Me: I know a fun way to find out...
She: What is it...
Me: Ok its also a kind of game... but you have to be creative and have imagination... or it wont work... Do you have imagination?
She: Yes sure...
Ik/She: [CUBE routine with 5-7 questions]
Me: And the personality of the horse... is the personality of your ideal lover... so he should have endurance! *because that’s what the personality of her horse was according to her*
She: Yes!
Me: If anybody else would have said endurance I would have probably interpreted it as something sexual, but with you its obvious that is has something to do with enduring your tough personality! Haha
She: haha....fuck you...
Me: I think your parents would be so happy when you would have finally found your victim that will take over part of their burden...
Me: What a job...
She: haha… you asshole…
Me: Do you actually have things to compensate?... Can you cook?
She: Listen... I don’t have to proof to you if i can cook!
Me: Well can you or cant you?...
She: Well by coincidence... I can.
Me: Well then I give you 1 star...
She: ?
Me: Yes 1 out of 5 already... Still 4 to go...
She: Don’t come to me with that star bullshit...
Me: Hey watch out little girl... I can take stars away as well!
She: Haha OK funny... I’ll give it the benefit of the doubt...
Me: Anyway the cooking part was just a joke... but what i really like is women who like to excercise... because I excercise a lot my self, that’s very important to me.. Do you practice sports?
She: Well... I run every day...
Me: Cool... you’re serious?... I do too!... You do it in the morning as well?
She: Yes...
Me: Wow me too... I was still looking for a new running buddy... Lets run together in the park?
She: Wow.... this is going too fast man! I don’t like that
Me: Oh really? We’re just having fun...
She: Yes… just be honest to me... You just want to see me again right?
Me: Yes... how else can we run together... WITHOUT seeing each other again?
She: You just want to see me again outside of the club… Just be honest!
Me: I am honest... are you afraid of new people or something?...
She: No... but I won’t do that with you... *walks away*

*15 minutes later I pass by her*

Me: * I pull her towards me*
Me: * I grab my phone and type in her face: First name = “my little sister [HER NAME] and run buddy”.... Last name= “I am gay and I will bring Chantal as well, so type in your number” *
Me: * I give her my phone to punch in her number *
She: Haha... You are not gay!...
Me: I am... * I try to hand over the phone one more time *
She: Liar...
She: Ok let me give you a riddle... if you are smart... you will have my number...
Me: Ok hit me
She: 012345678x
She: guess the “x”
Me: Oh... Normally i am very good at guessing numbers between 1 and 10... but is it a number that most people would guess?
She: Why?
Me: Well... Its kind of like a magic trick.. most people would say 7...
She: No, it’s a 9....
Me: Ok... thanks... but really... you should tell me all the numbers one more time... because now I still remember the last 9, but I forgot the rest...
She: Too late... What a shame... You should have paid more attention... Bye... *walks away*
Me: *looks at her walking away and doesnt want to lower his value to go after her*

So basically i fucked up. I might have plowed through in the end by doing things a bit different. But I already came back to her once and I didn’t want to lower my value even more after that. Plus I already felt like I was too much of a “try-hard” for rapport all the time with her anyway.

Guys how could I have done better...? Lets discuss

this girl sounded bloody hardwork so fairplay for almost getting the number close.

some nice use of routines but you sort of lowered your value a bit by asking questions maybe a bit too much, some use of statements such as 'what are they doing letting you in to dubai, they dont normally let bad girls in...', its basically asking her what she was doing in dubai without asking questions which set the frame that you dont need to ask her questions as it doesnt really matter to you whether she talks to you or not.

Just be wary because by the looks of it, this girl set you alot of hoops to jump through and at some points it sounded like you jumped through a bit too willingly e.g when she asked what neighbourhood you were from, and you asked why, then she said never mind... you then quickly reinitiated convo by saying where you were from. This was an ioi to her because you jumped through the hoop she left. A better idea was to of called her on being a stalker and saying 'you cant just give out random info to girls you dont even know, especially bad girls'... look out for shit tests and always accuse her of things which flip who is coming on to who.

The fact that you agreed to the riddle was a bad move, she is lucky to get your number... and if you did do the riddle, you should of told her that it was a shit riddle and maybe she isnt as intresting as you thought. The value you show her by walking away show that you arent intrested in her and you should of pulled it off at least at one point.

Overall i rate your general approach as this girl sounded like she wasnt contributing shit to the convo, future sarges, just watch out for the shit tests and hoops she throws you and show some serious disintrest by telling her she is friend zone or little sister early on in the convo. When she throws you a hoop, throw her one e.g she says 'let me give you a riddle' you can then say 'is it a difficult riddle' and then when she says 'guess the last number', reply with 'should i guess high or low?' answer a question with a question.

But overall nice sarge

slick

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