Hey guys

Just came off a TTM bootcamp about 3 months ago. And have been going out tonnes ever since.

Here's some super common things I have heard said (That I've been having trouble with):

"I'm going to borrow your friend for a sec." -> "No you can't she stays with me"

"I'm going to borrow your friend for a sec" -> "She's mine"

"We're lesbians" I get this x infinity.

"I've got a bf" "My bf is over there" (and she hugs some random chode).

"We've got to go dance. Come on"

"Is that a pick up line???"

"Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off."

Nice Any thoughts??

"I'm going to borrow your friend for a sec." -> "No you can't she stays with me"

Sounds like you're having some sort of problem gaining comfort with the group. They won't let their friend go off alone until they're sure she's safe with you. So you need to make sure you're sarging the whole group, at least initially.


"I'm going to borrow your friend for a sec" -> "She's mine"

See above.


"We're lesbians" I get this x infinity.

Probably girl code for, "You're telegraphing a lot of interest, and you don't have enough value at the moment for us to put up with your attempts to hit on us." Solution is to come in more neutrally, throw out disqualifiers, and DHV. If you do get the line, it's just another test. Just push past it.

"I've got a bf" "My bf is over there" (and she hugs some random chode).

Again, not enough attraction, or showing too much interest.

"We've got to go dance. Come on"

Probably same as above.

"Is that a pick up line???"

Again too much interest, although you can definitely throw in a disqualifier about her being vain and assuming you're hitting on her.

"Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off. Fuck off."

Again probably too much interest off the bat.

It could also be that you're not rooting your openers. You need to have a reason why you're talking to them, or else you're just some weird guy. Also, throwing out a time constraint relieves anxiety in the set that they're going to be stuck with you all night long.

I agree very much with the above.

Just remember that this can be very subtle. It doesn't even have to be what you've said.

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yeah man those are almost all shit-tests.
You just have to learn to think on your feet, you could have the best openers, and there will always be that b-rod who will give u a shit test no matter what. Just win them over; use a snappy comeback that negs them, but dont insult them too mush or it will make it worse.

Practice in a shit-test thread, search it.

Girls use them to separate guys that are worth talking to from guys who arent, think of passing a shit test like getting past the guards for a princess.

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